How to break free from an unfufilling friendship/relationship?

I believe that I need to break free from a guy that Ive been dating for about four months. We arent in a commited relationship but he acts as though we are( going thru my phone, asking me 20 questions about my whereabouts and who else am I seeing. But when i need someone to talk to after having a bad day, he isnt there. I wnt to leave him alone. But I dont want to hurt him... I've already told him how I feel about the whole situation....but he keeps "trying" and it really seems as though he's trying to please me.

Public Comments

1. The easy way is to tell him your gay.............and his breath stinks.......
2. It's best to be honest..If someone didn't want to be with me anymore i'd rather them tell me straight than just go through the motions.
3. Be honest and adult about it. Tell him it's not working and that you don't want to see him anymore. You're not really leaving him by the way; you've discovered that it won't work between you. If he gets weird or jealous, make sure you tell somebody who can support you in your decision! You'll find someone better!
4. Is your lif and time,, Tell him clear that you are not seeing any perspective with him,that you have different iu for life partner as he,, CLEAR ;;;
5. he seems verrryyy controlling. tell him if he doesnt relax then its not going to work he needs to TRUST you. and if he is alllwaysss concerned about if your with some other guy, then i would break up with him..plus its been 4 month, say down the road in 8 month and he is still doing this your still not going to be happy. he doesnt seem to commited. he needs to be your best friend and be someone that you know that whenever you need someone he is the person that you can go to and he isnt. he should be more than happy to have you come to him and he needs the one to help make you feel better.. tell him what you think, tell him that he cant be controlling.he needs to be there... i hope this helps and hope everything gets better!
6. Ms Z, breaking off any form of friendship/relationship is going to hurt no matter how easy one try to tell the other party. just come right out and tell him the truth why you feel it time for the two of you to part ways. (1) he have no rights to look through your phone, period. (2) this question you about your whereabouts is totally immature and its a big failure about truth. (3) You don't try to control you, in any form of friendships/relationships. you don't try to control your partner. If they care enough about you and respect you. They will let you know where they're, you're not his child nor he is your child. so, just tell him and just move on.
7. for a start, even if you were in a serious relationship with this guy; he shouldn't go through your phone anyway!! that just shows a complete lack of trust - and if there isn't trust, there isn't a solid foundation to build on. Sounds like he's got some issues here. And I wouldn't be happy if he wasn't there at the end of a bad day either...you have to weigh up the pros and cons here - is this something that is likely to change? tell him you're not going to put up with his invasion of privacy - it's illegal to open other peoples mail; so why shouldn't it be the case for texts and emails?? see what the result is. If you're still not happy - you have to do what's best for you...