Relationship help/advice please...?

My bf and I have been together for almost 4 months...and everything between us is fine but we both had longer relationships before dating eachother. So we are having a little trouble getting used to eachothers expectations because we are so used to what we had before. I need alot of attention or I tend to get bored and when I'm with someone I prefer to spend my time with them when I have available free time when im not at work or school, etc. He doesnt seem to be as needy so I'm having trouble not being offended when he wants to leave my house to go to sleep or just stay home and relax. Any ways to help get over it and not care so much? On top of that his mother is always in our business...any suggestions...b/c she has a big mouth which means everyone is in our business n that makes it hard for a new relationship to work...we have a great connection i want to make it work better. suggestions please! ty :]

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1. Talk to him and let him know how you feel about his mom always being in your business. It will make your relationship last longer..
2. Best way is to talk to him about ur feeling maybe he can accomadate himself or u might end up his way or frustrated so btr talk to him as soon as possible
3. It is going to take time to get use to this new relationship as you are both pretty much stuck in your ways. Go out and try to do things independently (movie, lunch, shopping, etc.). You have to be comfortable being alone or else you will appear too needy, and often feel hurt when you have to be alone. Try to plan some activities that you both can do together as that might bring both of you closer. Also, try explaining to him that you want your relationship to stay just between the both of you. That can be really annoying when a lot of people are in the middle of your relationship. It can also cause tension. Good luck with things.
4. ok as far as ur relationship goes and you being needy i can relate to you being needy cuz a girlfriend is kinda the same way. this is what i say ask him to go to dinner with you? or have a dinner made from you at your house that way you have his full attention . as far as his mother what does he say about her being in your business have him talk to her. If he can talk to her and ask her to stay out of his business mabey she can respect that just a thought?
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