Would you rather be single and free to date around or in a long-lasting relationship?
By this i mean would you rather be single mostly and date men for a short time and be independent and free to do as you please and save long-lasting relationships forever or would you rather be in a long-lasting relationship in which you could base a family around. Basically would you rather flirt or be in a real relationship
Public Comments
- Long lasting works better. free sounds cool, but is usually very lonely.
- Real relationship but only with the right person.
- flirt
- The relationship one
- Long lasting relationship..
- I have been single forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ready for a real lasting relationship!!!
- A mix. A mildly long, flirting relationship. Nothing too serious, nothing too whore-ish. Definitely. No crying during break-up, but no putting up with cheating, etc. I'm not just a body.
- long lasting for sure with the right person
- Long-Lasting relationship with the person that I really love.
- long lasting, for sure. I've been single a long time, but stopped acting like it a long time ago, too. It isn't all it's cracked up to be. Mostly at the end of the day, you'd like to be able to just sit and talk about things.. to someone who's name you actually care to remember.
- Grass is always greener on the other side. But right now I am enjoying not having to answer to anyone but myself
- I think a relationship is better, but with the right person.
- I'm in a long lasting relationship and I prefer it much more than the single life. And you can always flirt a bit so long as it doesn't get carried away and goes no further.
- Well, I've been married twice, and have sworn never to marry again, though I've been with my current boyfriend for about a year and a half. I won't marry again, and sometimes I think I don't even want a relationship at all. And thinking about dating just makes me queasy. I think I'd rather be free and NOT date.....just go out with friends from time to time......
- I think none of us really want to be alone, even with someone you can be alone. I want to share my life with that person whom makes be feel alive, with a pulse. You know your job is cut out for you or have some serious choices to make when you end up asking your partner while just finishing making love, "Dear do you think it's time we paint the ceiling?" If ever I was to fall into that category it would only be then at I would rather be alone! ;-)
- long lasting relationship
- 40+ and counting.. i tell you the years but my wife hate me to so i just put 40+ and counting.. i can not think of any other place to be then in my long lasting relationship.. it been a ride.. lots of up and downs learning as we go we have it right just about the time we die... i love my family but all i need in this world is my wife..
- A part of my says date. Not because of the indepedence but the ability to not be tied down. But another part of me says relationship. You can have independence in a Long term relationship. There is just something about being with someone and getting married and having a family with them that is ideal. Knowing that when you come home the people that you love will be there, it's nice. Not that everything will be picture perfect but everything has it's problems, even dating has it's problems. You just pick your battles wisely and hope/ work-at things to go as well as they can.
- Long-lasting relationship, hands down. I'm in one. I can't wait to marry him. He's perfect. Gaw, you should see my smile. <3
- Right now in my life, I rather be single, flirty and independent.
- Long lasting. Short term relationships are unfulfilling & a waste of time. I'm not really wired for flings- I need something permanent & secure.
- idk probably single kuz i can date anybody that i think who is hott and sexii
- well, I rather be in a nice long relationship because I find it stupid if a person for their whole life just flirts.
- At my age i thing i should be in shorter relationships being that i'm not going to get married at 14.
