Are there any free dating sites to help a couple find a girl for a threesome?

My (longterm) girlfriend recently asked me about the most adventitious thing I had ever done (in the bedroom) before I met her. I answered her honestly and told her that, back when I was in college, I dated a girl who used to be a lesbian and once had sex with her while her ex-girlfriend and that girl’s new girlfriend watched, and then the two of us watched them… I was worried that I had said too much until my girlfriend quizzically asked “so you’ve never had a real threesome?” and reveled that, back in the day, she had actually had an ongoing ménage à trois with two (male) friends and had once been with three other girls!!! She then asked me if I’d ever want to have a threesome and said that all we’d need to do is find a willing girl online… Unfortunately, I can’t seem to find any (preferably free) dating sites that allow a couple to seek out a willing accomplice and the bisexual sites seem to have strict rules against people posting these… Other then Craigslist (which is full of prostitutes…not legitimate people looking for a good time) are then any (preferably free) sites that would allow a couple to seek out a willing female accomplice?

Public Comments

1. y not ask her m8?
2. just do it simple as that
3. This is the most legit I can find -- kind of like an uncensored Myspace. You can search specifically for people in your area and specifically for people who may be interested in engaging in a three-some. It is also free to register.
4. Try SLS my boyfriend and I are on that site and we have found some people that we would do it with but havent done it yet...we are picky lol its free to send messages and recieve the only thing is as basic member you can only send like 5messages per day and you can view like 50 profiles a day i think but we dont have the problem anymore but when we first joind we did cause we were looking and sending to everyone! lol hope you enjoy
5. No, there's not really any good free sites. The reason for this is that those serious about swinging (and yes, a threesome between a committed couple and anyone else is technically swinging) is willing to plop down the $20 or so to join a swingers site. Having paid memberships separates the those that are real from the lookie-loos and thousands of horny single guys and married men trying to cheat. Even the pay sites bring-up another issue. That is, for every bisexual single female looking for a couple, there are 25 couples looking for her. Bisexual single females are known as "unicorns" because finding one is just about as rare. That said, every FMF threesome we've ever had (and we've had a sexually open relationship for many years) has been with women we've met outside of the swinger lifestyle. They've been women we met a night clubs, BBQ's at a mutual friend's house and other mundane social situations. We meet her, we as a couple hit it off well with her, we exchange phone numbers and set-up a real date for another day. Basically, it's just like when you were single and looking for someone to hook-up with, except now you are doing it as a couple. And when you give-off that open, secure vibe you'd be surprised at how many opportunities will open-up to you.
6. try looking on http://thebest-datingsites.com they review the best ones and have one there called horny matches where you can search by area and by what other users want, ie threesome or whatever