Do you girls really like us nice guys?

I am a nice guy and it seems like no girl these days like us nice guys and they would rather date a guy that is a total jerk. I also feel like us nice guys finish last or we never finish. What's your opinion about this?

Public Comments

1. i agree w/ u
2. i don't..
3. Love the nice guys.
4. I WANNA KNOW TOO, IM A NICE GUY
5. i don't think they do
6. i like nice guys...jus not 2 nice
7. yeah
8. I love nice guys! ;)
9. i like guys of my stereotype..
10. Yes. I like nice guys. The ones that are jerks I just ignore. X]
11. I like nice guys , I would rather have a sweet guy as a boyfriend than a jerk that just looks hot
12. i like the nice guy
13. I love nice guys :)
14. Well nice guys don't really approach me, but if they did, yes. Actually, guys don't really approach me at all. D:
15. I only like nice guys, they dont even have to look good.
16. we like guys who want to have fun. jerks just for some odd reason seem more appealing, until they get you pregnant and leave you. then you hate your life, and commit suicide.
17. No, stay nice, stay the way you are....one day you will meet that special someone who will like you just for being you......there are too many bad guys in this world, we don't need more.
18. heey...you might be really nice...or are you. My brother thinks he's a nice little nerd...little does he know that he's taken place as the bully at our school. he's MEAN. So EVERYONE avoids him, then he goes home and takes his anger out on me... if you really are nice, girls like a funny guy...think about that!
19. I like nice guys I like a sweet caring Gentleman not some obnoxious loser jerk. Gentlemen RULE THE WORLD
20. i hate jerks i want someone that will treat my friends AND my self with respect and that will do something for me if i need it
21. I only like nice guys and there doesn't seem to be enough of them....=P
22. There's no such thing as a nice or not nice guy. Everyone has been mean or rude in one point of their lives...and we've all been nice at least once as well. I'd rather a guy admit to being both than claiming to be a "nice guy". Truth is, we're all a bit of both.
23. I'm a sucker for a softie. I am not really into arrogant, cocky jerks. I like guys that I feel comfortable around...guys that I can talk to and open up to. My advice: stay nice. Someone respectful will come your way and appreciate you.
24. That's a good question. You get a star.
25. WHAT KINDA QUESTION IS THAT OF COURSE I LIKE NICE GUYS....IM NOT GONNA HAVE SOME GUY BEATIN ME OR SUMTIME... HAHA AND U KNOW WUT I THINK JERKISH GUYS ALWAYS TEND TO BE POPULAR AND POPLUAR GUYS GET GOOD GIRLS :) EVEN IF THE GIRL THINKS HE'S A JERK...SIMPLE MATH :)
26. I love my guys nice. But when they are a little bit to nice. It throws us off because we don't know if you can take control. We like a nice man but not a wimp. XD I hope that helps you!! And never get yourself down! XD ♥♥♥
27. I married a nice guy ( he was always screwed over by other cheating bitches) . But enought with these "bad boy's" and get with a good guy ! Nice guys may finish last but you guys always always will have a place in our hearts. It's typical now a days for the girls to date marry or what ever these guys but they ( i know alot of my friendsdo) bitch and complain about they wish they were with a nice guy .
28. The nice, sweet, considerate guys are the best, but you have to have a little bit of a... mischievous attitude. Don't be a push over, and don't be a a jerk and control the relationship either. You kind of have to be a mix. Edit: But please don't change yourself just for a girl! If a girl doesn't like you because you're not all "bad-boy" like, then you don't deserve her. Being nice is awesome (we need more guys like you!), just don't always say, "Yes..." or agree with her or whatever. Being nice does not mean pushover.
29. No, girls like nice and sweet guys!I Although I have a little attraction in me for bad boys I still prefer nice guys! They wouldn't cheat, pressure u into smoking, drugs, sex, etc... Even if you are just friends with a nice guy, you will probably end up liking them anyway! That is what is happening to me :(
30. I like nice guys. I don't see why any girl would want to deal with a jerk. Girls that like jerks are probably girls that you're better off without anyway. Edit: However, I do like guys that are risk taking and are willing to break the rules.
31. Hiya.yeah i like guys who r nice but also got hurmor and can stand uo for them selves.
32. Young Man, Being a nice guy (and/or a nice girl/woman) doesn't say you allow people using you as a door-mat every-which-way. Being 'nice' is saying you're always attempting seeing the better side of any person and situation, that you're always opened in discovering how more respecting yourself and others..You're saying you've hope, have dreams for a better world to/of some extent; perhaps just in your neck the woods not going beyound your turf..Because you've likely sideline seen and personally gone thru some tough experiences that've drawn you to being kinder/nicer to whomever. Being nice hurts when not balancing it out---as said, but more interpretively--by sticking to rules you've decided to follow/practice while being opened to see what the other side (or person/people) are really saying, go it from there as an arbitrator, et cetera. And defending a situation/yourself when warranting..You just cannot allow things/people running against what's universally decent/appropriate mannerisms from heartfelt thinking. We all hurt, can easily be hurt, and there're still many girls/women who'll recognise and goodly react to a nice guy(from this to that level)---perhaps not in your environment, however, as you more live life will be seen who and who you cannot hang with. Or, you go thru less raw/bad relationships, and certainly will deeply learn how understanding yourself and others from emotionally/spiritually living thru and continuing onwardly from a not-so-good relating (as long as having kept to morals of being nice w/fairness to as much can be said and demonstrated from who you are (and continually learning to be). Nice people finish last, to some percentile, true, due from most nice people either became too much a door-mat (for others) or saw themself as a sacrificial lamb---too much a pacifist. We all learn many paths on this one journey,most nice people normally end up with a lasting relationship, and those that don't, well, those nice people have allowed being turned into pessimistic, negative people who've buried their niceness wayyyy deep---then it takes someone who sees that deep to bring them around---possibly after much sacrifice and tremulous history--when succeeding, normally another lasting relationship for the records. There're bunches of nice people---you hafta recognise them, and they who don't want acknowledging a nice person, well, isn't ready within (themselves) to furtherly understanding what love is and can be---you can't save the entire world. Blessings to you.