Guys, would you have a problem dating a shy girl?
A few guys at my college said id be datable if i were more outgoing. do i need to change myself or just wait for someone who accepts me this way? thanks [=
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- Why not do both?
- Most guys loooove shy girls. That was code meaning you're not easy enough to get into bed. So don't listen to them. The problem for shy girls is meeting men. Make your boy pool larger. Go to parties, join clubs, watch sports games, go to the coffee shop and hang out with people. It will make you more sociable and you'll meet lots of guys. Then one will find you and hope you don't change a thing. Good luck.
- Wait for someone who accepts you this way.
- Date ME and find out!
- There is no reason to force yourself to change. If being introverted is who you are, be the best that you can be with that attribute. Not everyone is designed to be extroverted and talkative. But it does help to express your thoughts once in a while. Besides, being introverted or shy doesn't mean you don't talk at all. It can mean that you speak when necessary and are observant to your surroundings. If you can find someone who can accept you as who you are, then that's perfect, because he is attracted to your true self, and not someone who's forced herself to change just to win a few dates with some guys. Are these guys even worth changing yourself? You know you're worth too much to be forced into peer pressure. And it's particularly difficult in college. While you may have experienced this in high school, you can see for yourself that the college atmosphere can be more intimidating. Be proud of yourself and don't let society tell you what you should do in order for you to be accepted. Love yourself and with patience, the right guy should come into your life. For me, I seek someone who is honest with themselves and with others.
