help on dating this shy guy?
i met this guy and we both like each other a lot. we hung out at my house for a while, watch some movies and we cuddled (he did not hug me good-bye) he calls me everyday and before we are about to hang up, he asks "you want to hang out" or says "we should hang out". he never initiates anything i like the guy to make the first move but i really like this one. so my question is - does he really like me or just keeping me a distant so he will not lose but still have me. and if yes, where would a shy like to hang out? (no eating)
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- he is obssessed with you girlfriend! but not in a bad way yeh hang together
- sOmewhErE u bOth fEel cOmfOrTablE likE mayB thE mOviEs
- he is just hiding his gayness
- you really need to open him up. if you are an outgoing person you could really help him....but always remember those shy onez aren't always the best, haven't you ever seen Eddie Murphy's "Raw"? lol good luck girl ;)
- with some guys you will have to initiate the hanging out, and its OK. you know what he likes, dont you? so ask him to one of his favorite places. go to the park, or the zoo or somewhere where you can walk, and talk and be together around other people, but not directly with the other people.
- if he's so shy than why don't you grow the f*ck up and realize that now a days girls ask guys out! Take him some where private, rip his pants off and just blow him!
- maybe he likes you and just wants to get to know you a little better or maybe he doesnt want a relationship
- If you really like him, go out of your comfort zone a little and ask him to the movies, and make your move. ;) Good Luck!
- shy guys are hard..i had one that was shy and it didnt work out bc he was just too shy...but i mean..you'll just have to make the moves. As a girl..making the moves was the best thing that ever happened with us..some shy guys are really reserved and kinda pansy like so they're not going to do anything until they are 100% you like them first...so i would honestly make the moves yourself. good luck!
- of corse go out wif him girl!
- yeah i used to be what i describe as "embarassingly shy" when i was younger. And trust me it has nothing to do with lack of interest or trying to keep distance from you. If he calls you everyday and cuddles with you, he's as interested as you can get. I mean how many guys just call platonic friends EVERY DAY? Doesnt happen....... The thing is with shy guys. They're afraid of rejection and they're afraid of doing something thats out of they're normal comfort zone. Even with girls they KNOW like them they are afraid of doing or asking something to mess up theyr'e chances. Your job if you really like this guy is to make the first moves and ask out for dates at least at first to get the ball rolling. And make it OBVIOUS you like him. I mean REALLY OBVIOUS. Leave no doubt in his mind. And say things to him to kind of build his ego. Like complement him on his clothes or his humor or his personality. Just things you really like about him or things he really is proud of. It will help build his confidence at least around you
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