Do bi guys shy away from dating gay guys?

For some reason, I think I'd have better luck with bi guys. I myself am gay. To me, though, it doesn't matter if he's bi or gay. Trumpet, I said it doesn't really matter. If I love someone, I could care less if they are either bi or gay. That's not important. I was just wondering if bi guys tend to date other bi guys or gay guys, that's all.

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1. do gay guys shy away from dating bi guys
2. Why do you care about their sexuality? The GLBT community is tryig to show that were all people. Why do you think a bi guy would be better - Does the stereotype fit your personality better?
3. From what I have seen, it is the other way around. Gay guys seem to not date bi-guys because they see them as being unreliable as they may run off with a woman. As if the guy you are dating running off with a woman is worse than if they run off with a man. Perhaps it has something to do with being able to compete with another man, but not being able to compete with a woman - I don't know. Anyway, that's the skinny as far as I can tell. Edit:- Merry Christmas everyone!
4. My boyfriend is bi, and he's dates gay guys before ... I don't think he has any preference for bi guys over gay guys.
5. Thing is, there aren't any bi-guy clubs as such, so if a bi guy fancies going with a man, he is more likely to find one in a gay venue. Whether that man turns out to be either bi himself or gay, I don't think makes an ounce of difference if they 'click'.
6. Bi guys seem to date either girls or top guys. Every bi guy I've encountered has ended up being a huge bottom. So.. top him off!
7. As a bi person myself, I would say it kinda depends on the individual and also on where you live. When I was in Europe I found that bi men over there tend to be more open about their sexuality and for the most part they don't really have a preference or any hang ups about dating gay men or other bi men. Back home here in the USA its different. Most bi guys I've known prefer to discretely have sex with gay/bi men but would rather date and get into long-term relationships with women. I suspect its because its just easier for them to do it that way. I don't know...