Girls have you ever dated short guys, and did you ever felt safe with him?

im not talking shorter then you but maybe your height or an inch taller. Someone who is under 5'5'' or 5'6''. Does he provide security?

Public Comments

1. No.
2. No, he's a little muchikin.
3. Well for me I am 5'11 so I usally date smaller guys. I like it. I think its fun and cute. It's almost a turn on for me.
4. Well, I'm 5'1 so I've never encountered a man I was attracted to who was that short. I don't mind men who are short and I do feel safe with them. Short guys have amazing bodies most of the time. You'll have girls who did you.:)
5. When did size ever madder? If u turst him it should be alright!
6. No, I haven't but I am 5'1!
7. LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL YOU HIPOCRIT!
8. Yes because I can't wear heels or he looks worse meaning less likely to fall and hurt myself.
9. no u would have to b careful just like every other guy
10. No, never .
11. I am 5'-8" and my ex-girlfriend is 6'-0". I'd kick anybodies @ss to this day that ever so much as lays a mean finger on her.
12. Lol, trust me, height has nothing to do with how protective a guy is. I love short men, they are soooo cute and hell, very attractive to me. I like a guy who plays for my footie team, he's probably around 5,4 / 5,5 and he's gorgeous. One day on the pitch, he got into a fight and this guy was huge and my wee man went straight for him! Security and feeling secure with a guy is nothing to do with a guys height, but the guy himself!
13. im currently with someone about 1inch shorter than me. i dont know how i feel about shorter guys yet tho.
14. I'm marrying a guy who's my height - 5'4' - and I've never felt safer. He's the most powerful guy I've ever known (in ALL ways).
15. well kinda ................... some times i dont some times i do
16. i kinda of feel unsalf with short guys i whant a guy who will protect them but who knows if they have a great personality then maybe bi luv ya
17. i dont like short guys.
18. I'm 5"8 and my boyfriend is 5"4. he is remarkably strong. and the sex life is really fun too.
19. ...just make sure you are the same height as the girl...or it would looke weird....... Like a tall basket ball player with an short asian..... Just WRONG..!!
20. i dont really mind and yes i have actually my bf is like a lot shorter than me lol
21. His height has nothing to do with what he can provide, even when it comes to security...taller guys only give a perception of being able to provide more security.
22. Yes. And yes I felt safe. He was a cop :0)
23. yea but i really liked him and yes he waz protectiv if you really like this guy then go out w/ him
24. yes i have, and no i didnt feel safe.
25. Sure, as long as he exudes self confidence and seems to have a lot of interests.
26. im 5'1 and the guy ive fallen in love with is only 5'2 so it doesnt really matter...he gives me security! have a nice day
27. oooooh honey, I cannot do Betty and Barney Rubble thing......but then again, I am of above average height (5'11)....and couldn't possibly date someone shorter...because my height already draws attention....I would be secure, but uncomfortable because I like height on a man.... However, an inch? Hmmmmm size does not determine courage and how good he is at opening up a can of whoop ass on someone if he needed to......I mean, look at Spud Webb (basketball player)....he was the SHORTEST MAN in the slam dunk competition and beat them ALL! Look at some of these boxers....
28. I'm only 5"1 and I find guys most attractive who are about 5"8 which is shorter than average. I want a man who is taller than me but it's not the most important thing. I don't find really short guys attractive because they very often in my experience suffer from Napoleon complexes and behave aggressively. The shortest guy I ever went out with was about 5"6 and he was too jealous for me and drove me insane. He often would ask me if I prefered taller guys and got annoyed if I spoke to taller men. I don't know how specific that was to him but a lot of my friends have had similar experiences. I'm not looking for "security" just for someone who is relaxed and fun to be around. If I can't get that from a short guy, that's the problem, not his height.
29. YES!!! Im 6' and my boyfriend is only 5'10 but I def feel safe with him. He's also pretty muscular so thats prob why. A guy doesnt have to be tall to provide security, come on now!!
30. Yeh i think he does. I love small guys. It might help if he was a little more on the muscular side but ehhh that can't always be possible. Aslong as hes confident in himself and would stand up for me if need be then yeh sure id feel safe. x
31. There is lot of higher guys who wuoldnt make you feel safetier... My BF is only an inch toller than me, and I never felt safetier with him than when I am alone. Actually, my opinion about safety is that is sth that only you can give to yourself, thats why I am not bothered with this BF thing. And from the same reason I started to with jiu jitsu, taekwondoe, self protection, systema trainings. After all, no matter how strong (looking) your BF is, he cannot be with you all the time to protect you.
32. height doesn't matter to me I'm 5'7 and my man is 6'1 who am kidding i feel secure with my tall man but if I'm with a shorty he has to be ruff or slightly crazy in order for me to fell safe because in all reality i make myself feel safe
33. I'm in that kind of relationship right now and he DOES provide security and he would hate for me to get hurt by anybody including my father who has called the police on me and told them lies
34. I am 6'1'', my boyfriend is about 5'10''. I always feel very safe with him. I think it depends on how much you trust him, more than anything. I think that when girls are taller than their boyfriends, they make cute couples. But, like I said before, I don't think that the height really matters so much, just how much you trust him and if he makes you feel safe.
35. im 5 foot 11 and i love shorter men. Thier height comes in handy. They are always the best lovers.
36. My ex was my height, about 5'4" and he did not make me feel safe, I could beat him at arm wrestling. Now a guy likes me and I like him and we might go out and he makes me feel WAYYY safer. He's a football player haha I think things are starting to turn aroundd