how would you feel if your daughter was dating a shy guy?

The reason I am asking is I am a shy guy and have not yet met my girlfriend's parents, she has told them about me, but I have never met them face to face. What would you think of a shy guy just curious?

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1. i would be find with it
2. Woah... dude I wouldnt do it it couldnt end up good thats all i'm saying bro get out before its too late...
3. id feel fine, but if they ask you a question, answer it, dont be late to answer, otherwise they will think somin is up
4. I would think he had a tiny penis and no balls at all. He should date her. she is safe
5. ok..why? as long as he respects her and treats her like the princess that she is
6. Well how do they know that you are a shy guy. You have to meet them in order for them to like you and trust you with their daughter. If they don't know you and only hear about you through their daughter, they will not think much of it. Just be as nice as you can. Shy guys are usually mama's favorites.
7. he probably has a very large penis.
8. i like the shy ones!!
9. Um that he's hiding something or that he doesnt really care about my daughter
10. shy guys are usually really nice
11. honestly, I would just be relived that he was a drug dealer or somthing
12. I would understand. There's nothing wrong with a shy guy.
13. Being shy is not a crime, so why should I have reason to be concerned?
14. They will think it's good. As they will think that you guys aren't going to get in any trouble. Raving drunk parties etc. Unlike a completely crazy out going guy may be seen as a bit of a worry. Good luck!
15. Idk, In ways I would be glad because your not absolutely crazy, but in others it might seem like you are hiding something. Just be respectful and smile a lot and you will be fine. Talking too much is worse than not talking enough...
16. I would be somewhat satisfied because he wont be so open about sex , like most men are.
17. Well I'm a parent of a girl. I wouldn't mind my daughter dating someone shy, or outgoing for that matter. What I care about is how does he treat my daughter and how does he feel about her. Does he respect her, love her, treat her well, keep her best interests at heart, etc.?
18. that its better 2 hav a shy bf for ur daughter bc i no some1 who likes 2 get ppls attention a lot and she is a s1ut
19. It wouldn't bother me. Practice before you meet them about making a little conversation though. Be polite and look them in the eye when talking. If you can't look in their eyes pick a spot on the nose between the eyes. Good Luck.
20. If you have a good personality, I believe that the parents wouldn't care. Being shy, portrays a sense of sensitivity which is always good. Besides, if you and the daughter really love each other, nothing should come between that especially some overbearing parents. Good Luck!
21. I'd be fine, but I like a lot of people, and it's not my life, it's hers.
22. personally i like that kind of guy.. although try to speak up a little, you know just to make conversation. but other than that be yourself. im sure her parents will like you.. shy and quiet is a lot better than loud and annoying haha :)
23. Parents seem to like a guy that is a little more low key ... and they prefer them to some uptight or aggressive or narcissistic guy... just be yourself, if she cares about you, they will too
24. I would take advantage of him through intimidation the same way my ex's parents did me. You'll be fine!
25. My boyfriend is -very- shy. However, when he first met my parents, everything went fine. He was quiet, but parent's understand the experience of meeting them for the first time is a little intimidating. It's been over two years since I introduced him to them, and he has become so much more outgoing and they always talk about how he has grown in leaps and bounds. The only thing that will turn parents off is if you were a loud, obnoxious jerk. Don't stress! You'll be fine!
26. Dude, I know how it feels. I am always shy, and I've learn it's the way I react when I'm meeting new people. But if your with your girlfriend, I am sure she will make you feel totally comfortable. Don't sweat being shy, were all shy, no matter how much we worry about it. Just be who you are when your with your girlfriend, that's what her parents want to see. I hoped I helped, and good luck.
27. I think I would be polishing the old shotgun if that was the case.
28. I'd try to meet him to see if he seems like a nice sorta guy. (I'm not that old, i don't have children though) 17
29. If I were you I wouldn't worry about what her parents think. Just try to relax, and make it a brief visit. Don't overstay, don't talk too much, and don't try to be funny, because older people have a much different sense of humor. Be quiet and boring, and nothing will go wrong.
30. Shy guys are usually respectful and don't get into too much trouble. They also usually love hard. I should know...I married one! Consider it an asset and go meet her parents, shake their hands, and be yourself. Good Luck!
31. The first time I met my a girls parents that I was dating I asked the fathers permission to date her and he just threw her at me his exact words "you want her you could have her are you willing to marry her?" I was scared shit less I had to think about it