Dating a very SHY guy??
i've been dating this guy for 4 months. i can tell that he likes me cause he wanna spend alot of time with me but the thing is that he's so shy and i know he'll never confess. he keeps looking for excuses to cover his real intentions. like the other time he wanted to stay for a longer time with me,he looked for all sorts of excuses,even when he asked me out,he gotta come up with an excuse to do so. i mean why can't he just be honest about it and stop giving excuses? what should i do about it cause i feel like it's not going anywhere.
Public Comments
- You sure you want to get involved with a man or boy who does not know how to express himself in the simplest of ways?
- Put him in a yes/no situation.
- Umm. Im in the same situation right now. What I did was I confronted him about it, and he admited to it. Maybe you should do that too.
- just talk to him and see watz up good luck :D
- Obviosly there is a reason he is so shy. Maybe he has been hurt by women in the past so much that he is afraid to express himself 2 you. or if you are his first girl he is just scared and doesnt know what to do. Guide him
- Kiss him. I am being dead serious. You should kiss him. When you kiss him then pull back and study his expression. Most likely he'll be surprised. If he kissed you back then it means he has hope and that he will eventually overcome his shyness. If he didn't and was like "what are you doing?" then maybe it'll take a little more time... But the bottom line is, everyone is shy at somethings. If you really like him you should tell him how you feel and just kiss him. Trust me, he's probably wanting to kiss you but doesn't know how to do it the best way. Hope I helped =]
- Most problems like this one can be easily solved by just having a private heart-to-heart talk with the guy. But don't make it critical. Just say, "You know, it makes me FEEL as if you don't . . ." (do whatever you'd like him to do.) Telling him how his behavior makes you feel will not make him think you are putting him down.
