Any advice for dating someone who is shy around guys?

Most of the other girls I've gone out with have been really outgoing, so this is a bit of an adjustment for me. From what I can tell she's mostly just shy around guys she likes, I figure I'm going to have to make the first move to let her know I'm interested, but I'm also kind of afraid of scaring her off... We've known each other for about a few weeks, we're both about 21-ish. I'm really starting to grow attached to this girl, I mean I like her alot, I'm just not used to dealing with girls who are extremely shy...has anyone else had experience with this? Did you like wait 2,021 years before you kissed her for instance? =P

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1. take it slow
2. Well, my boyfriend is quite shy. He used to be anyway, I think if you just see her every so often, and don't kiss her for maybe the first time, and just make sure she feels comfortable. With mine, I just kissed him, and he was fine. Infact, he's a lot more open now, as long as you build up their confidence she'll be fine soon enough. Especially if she likes you, she'll be comfortable soon enough!!
3. Take your time and spend alot of time with her. You shouldn't have to rush in and make moves, tell her you do like her alot, she will appreciate your honesty and will probably come out of her shell a bit more if she likes you too! Good Luck!
4. Just keep showing her that she can trust you. Once she trusts you she should open up. Also pay attention to her likes, dreams (if she has let you in on them), and desires. Try to pay attention to those tiny details that most guys miss and work with those. Just be patient, she may come around sooner than you think. She may not be sure about her feelings or that you like her. Most likely the latter over the former.
5. i would say just go slow, and hopefully she will warm up to you.
6. give hera good sex, that shoyld wait her up.
7. you never know get to know her better and you might get a breakthrough she might quite confident. Make the first move and just communicate she may want to take it slow but she may feel comfortable taking it at a quicker pace. Communcation is the way. Good luck.x
8. I'm a shy girl myself. My boyfriend has taken it very slow with me and will never do anything that makes me uncomfortable. I love him for that. You will have to ask her out things like that. Best Of Luck ♥ Donni's Girl PS: Help maybe? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvydJNftz5DI1SOu1w_5QDnsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080707090741AAEAzBP
9. First dates are hard when your shy. Ask her out in a group setting. Maybe a club with a few friends. If its going well ask her out again.