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Dating question... do guys mind shy girls?

Hi :) I'm just wondering, do guys mind shy girls? I've never really been on a "real" date. There are a couple of guys that like me (But I don't like them) but besides that, I really haven't known anybody. I'm shy, and I blush really easily and I'm pretty quiet, especially around guys that I think are cute, lol. Do you think that when I go to college, will guys talk to me / want to get to know me even if I appear shy and quiet at first? Once I get to know / spend plenty of time with people I open up and love to do all sorts of things, but I think people think I am stuck-up because I'm so shy and quiet. So- are guys just not interested because I'm shy or do you think they won't mind?

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  1. of course shy girls are always really cool once u get 2 no them and besides shy girls are funner than loud girls cuz loud girls is u c what u get.....and shy girls gives u sumthin to wonder about thats sexy...at least 2 me ^^
  2. I wouldnt (and dont) mind shy girls.
  3. IF A GUY LIKES YOU: 1. He will sit by you whenever he can. 2. He always takes things from you and hides them. 3. He makes eye contact as much as possible. 4. He messes with your hair. 5. He laughs at you just to see you smile and tell him to shut up. 6. He asks about your day. 7. When the 2 of you have play fights, he always argues, no matter what. 8. He sneaks up on you. 9. His friends ask you if you're going out with him yet. 10. He smiles every time you look at him. 11. He's always teasing you. 12. Whenever you hang out with him and it's time to leave, he argues and wants you to stay longer. 13. This one is rare but every once in a while, if he doesn't quite know how to express his feelings for you, or he doesn't want anyone to know how he feels about you, he will be mean to you, in a joking way. 14. He's always laughing at you, even if what you did wasn't that funny. 15. He walks next to you whenever he gets the opportunity. 16. He shows off with his friends when you are around him and his friends are there. GUY FACTS: 1. When a guy calls you, he wants to be with you. 2. When a guy is quiet, he's listening to you. 3. When a guy is not arguing, he realizes he is wrong. 4. When a guy says, "I'm fine" after a few minutes, he means it. 5. When a guy stares at you, it can mean 2 things - he is wondering why you are so wonderful, or he wishes you would care about him as much as he cares about you and wonders if you do. 6. When you are laying your head on a guys chest, he has the world. 7. When a guy calls, texts, or comments you everyday, he is in love. 8. When a *good* guys says "I love you", he means it. 9. When a guy says he can't live without you, he's with you until you are done. 10. When a guy says "I miss you", he misses you more than you could have missed him or anyone/anything else. 11. When a guy walks next to you all the time, he's willing to give up anything for you. 12. When a guy is with his friends and glances at you every once in a while, he'd rather be with you.
  4. We hate shy girls. Talk all the time. There should not be a single moment when your mouth is not screaming the first thing that comes to your mind. Remember, you must never, ever shut the hell up.
  5. yeah shy girls are cool
  6. it all depends on how shy you are really. like for insists if when they are talking to you just say yea or something and don't try to make conversation. After a while it feels like your talking to yourself, also the conversation can die really fast if you don't trying to talking back. Not saying that shy is bad and all. Being shy is alright it just all depends on how far it is Hope this helps :)
  7. The biggest problem you will face as a shy girl is the fragile male ego. I went out last week with a shy girl. We have a mutual friend set us up. After the date, I didn't phone her again. From her performance on the date, I figured she was not at all interested in me. A few days later our mutual friend called and said the girl was crazy about me, and why didn't I phone. Simple answer, I took her her silence and failure to make eye contact as rejection. So make sure to give him some sort of encouragement, no matter how awkward you are feeling.
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