Can a lady tell me why nice guys always finish last in the dating game?

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1. well you know for me nice guys finish first
2. Nice people finish last. Its not just guys.
3. becuase its a dog eat dog world buddy
4. maybe ur too nice and not too good in what you sat or you just bother the girl too much can be somany thing ask ladys what they like in a man and what they dont so you can see what ur doing wrong i like good men and especially if they spoil me
5. nice guys dont always finish last.......if i were u id just be who i am and just remember that plenty of girls would love to find a nice guy.........the other guys might be a fun time 4 a little bit but nice guys would be better long-term.
6. Honestly I don't know. I know that I have screwed over good friends and good guys who cared about me, but I just didn't see them that way. But on the other hand I date guys that other girls see as 'just a friend' and wouldn't ever imagine dating. I date nice boys. I don't think that they all finish last, yes I think that it sometimes takes them longer to take off, but eventually they do and they find a great girl. Good girls can sometimes ask that same question...why is it that bitchy girls get more guys? Because guys like a challenge? Maybe it's the same phenomenon both ways. Don't change who you are to get a girl. Try and be a little more outgoing and meet girls who you don't normally hang around with. Meet someone new. There are plenty of girls out there who want to find a nice guy, they just suck at finding them. That's no lie. I can find nice guys for myself, but my friends suck at it. Sometimes some of the nicer guys are a little more clingy, not on purpose, they just care so much. This is sometimes a problem for girls...a turn off. I don't know if any of this helped, but it's a bunch of truth from experience.
7. bcuz the nice guys are patient gentlemen. they are in no hurry.
8. because no one pays any attention to them until last.