Why do nice guys finish last?

How come women dont like dating nice guys? instead, women like dating guys who are more flamboyant, rebellious, treats them like dirt, etc. what is about women that makes them like guys who treat them bad? many of my friends have lost their gfs because they were too nice. what the hell is going on? are women secretly smoking some substance? do women like being treated like dirt? i certainly wouldnt if i were a woman. is it because women find it hot and exotic to have guys treat them bad? nice guys always finish last for some reason. we are always last to get the girls because we were too nice and women dont like being treated nicely. women often overlook these nice guys as just friends and dont see that these friends will be better husbands, caretakers, and fathers. i am furious at this girl who broke up with my friend because of his nature of being too nice. he told me now he's done with being nice and going to treat women like the jerks who always get women. what is happening?

Public Comments

1. bad slvts dont like nice guys but us nice girls are the ones that like nice guys and want them to chose us for a wife!
2. i like nice guys i think they are hot well most of them but looks dont really matter to me . please tell your freind to not give up and please continue being nice he will meet the right girl one day. anyways... of you wanted to talk more just email me .some people are so stupid when they like getting treated like crap . i think their should be more nice guys in the world instid of all the gangsters and people who dont care about anyone or anything . well that is just my opinion .im sorry if i made anyone mad . .
3. CRY ME A RIVER! Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go hang with some nice girls for a change....like those two just above me! Enough already with the whinning and the blah, blah, blah...Grow up and get a grip!
4. I dont know its just someting about those bad guys that we just love. But dont worry, us girls know what we need and we'll eventually come around.
5. I've seen similar questions to this etc. and really the last thing everyone needs is another group of jerks upsetting more women or men and then the group of nice ppl have to pick up the pieces until they are left behind feeding the vicious cycle. If someone dumps you because you are too nice that is just an excuse for not liking you anymore. If someone wants to be friends he/she doesn't like you further. If he/she is into soap opera drama and think an outlaw/outsider etc. and think in his/her wildest fantasies is keen to be with and that they might be the only special person to them - screw them. Don't change your nature because of some stupid girl/guy who will someday wonder why did he/she not consider or stay with that person who was nice to them. Though if you like be more confident, proud, stand your ground, be good instead of nice, limit your time around friends or would prefer to be friends, demand respect. Once in a blue moon say no. Be nice only if warranted.
6. I would kill for a nice guy just not a crazy one there is a difference between nice and weired. but dnt stress loosing a girl to a bad boy she wants what she wants in the end if you dnt change you'll have a perfect wife guaranteed
7. I would rather be wih a nice guy. i don't want to be treaed like crap if im in a relationship. if i did, i would end it right away. you and your friend sound like nice guys. stay that way!
8. Please stop with the generalizations. Not all girls like the bad boys. Nice guys seem to always be attracted to the bad girls. And these guys seem to let these bad girls mistreat them for far too long. When a nice guy gets involved with a not so nice girl, as soon as she starts acting up, he needs to get out of the relationship immediately. But NO! He sticks around her until he can't take it anymore and then he's fed up. If you and your friend who just got his heart broken were to be honest with yourselves, I'm sure if the two of you look back at his relationship, you both would conclude that your friend hung in there too long. There are a lot of women out here who wished they could get a nice guy. Tell your friend don't change who he is, just start picking better women.
9. nice guys do not always finish last, that my friend is an exaggeration. Some girls like meaner guys because they want protection/ power. Not like u wussy
10. It's not that we like guys who are jerks. Trust me. It is the confidence. Confidence is very attractive - especially if there is something that goes along with it, like good looks, athletic ability, brains, etc. So, you want to know something? I am a lot older than you and I recently went to a highschool reunion. Amost every "Jerk" who hooked up with the "cheerleader"-type in highschool, was divorced, fat (very fat), ugly or broke. So many of the "nice-guys" were happily married, in good paying jobs in really nice homes with a couple of kids and very, very happy. I am not saying this just to make you feel better - it is the truth. So, based on my experience, my theory is this: Jerks enjoy their lives in their teens and early 20s. Nice - REAL people enjoy their lives in their mid 20's and for the REST OF THEIR LIVES! Don't change. It is not worth it. You have your whole life to be proud of the type of person you are. You will find a girl who truly appreciates it and it will be forever. And, it wont be totally superficial!
11. hey there I think that you shouldn't change for who you are no matter what.Obviously they don't deserve a good guy like you .I completely understan where your coming from.The type of guy you are makes you ,you.they are missing out not you trust me.Good guys finish last for a good reason not bad.Save the best for last!