Hey, I am a gay, how do I go about dating, were do I find nice guys to love?

I live in the Portland, OR area, if you can help me PLEASE give any info you have, I really dont have any idea how to find a guy to date

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1. Well you are close to Seattle, so I am guessing the coffee district has reached you. Go grab a coffee, do some scoping out. Check bars, although sex is usually looked for there. Gay.com is also a somewhat nice place to look. Depending. LOL I wish you luck though... BTW Three Sisters was the best bar ever for strippers. Woohoo~!
2. Just be careful! It's crazy out there! I spent a good chunk of my life getting wasted in gay bars hoping to find Mr. Wonderful. Please don't do that! The trick is to just be yourself and don't look too hard. Join a club, a class, a social group, you will find Mr. Wonderful doing the things you love. You might get involved in volunteering at your local Gay & Lesbian Community Center. In Portland it's "The Q Center" http://www.pdxqcenter.org/ . There's always bars and on-line services and phone lines, but it''s a crazy place to meet new people. You'd better be grounded in who you are, and don't let anyone change that! Set your boundaries before embarking on a quest to hook up or date.