nice Guys always date the bitches, and nice girls always date the players?

I see soo many questions about "Why are all the nice guys dating Whores and bitces" and "why are all the Nice girls dating the dangerous tough guys" and i was just thinking this cant be possible. I think that most people who complain about this stuff are just too shy/social inept/ crazy to get any person of the other sex and they just want to blame there problems on this age old stereotype. What do you all think?

Public Comments

1. I have been asking that question for quite a while and the answer i got was that' just the way it is.
2. i think tht you are hot and o course i would agree with u cause ur so sexy
3. I agree. Im not a bitch and Im dating a nice guy..so there is a chance..besides..if they are bitching about it on here, they have issues on a whole other level.
4. Yeah, its so funny. LIke in my school, all the guys date all the whores. And all the sluts and etc..Get the boys. While me, and other normal girls dont. I really dont get, and i guess society dosent either,...........
5. well good girls like bad boys because u never know wat ur gunna get u have a bad boy & its the same for guys nice guys wanna have bad girls 2 do stuff they r arfaid of doing?
6. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqM4Qxwq92qaE0EG0BPZicfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080701121935AAVOsDF
7. The one's dating the player's aren't really nice girls either. They are setting themselves up to be victim's to have something to cry and whine about, so they'll get rescued by the nice buy, turn into the bitch they really were in the first place, use him to get kids, develop "green grass" syndrome, and leave him to pay child support, all the while ruining his good name and reputation as a dead beat dad.
8. not really. i date a nice guy who's really cute and i'm not a bitch. pure insult to us good girls!! and there's just a girl thing where girls want to date tough evil guys.
9. Yes the people that say this are bitter, and more often than not it is not the case anyway. Women who appear to be bitches may have a lot going for them in other areas and perhaps like the quieter strong silent type of man, whereas quiet girls like the thought of maybe taming a player or wildman...sometimes its easy to generalise, but there can be numerous reasons people don't see that makes a couple.
10. Agree with whatever you say SteveC
11. i think that your right. you said it all.
12. yea they probably just can't fess up to there mistakes nice guys should go after nice girls and leave the snotty ones for each other we don't like "bad boys" r care bout that,that's just a stupid assumption i think its ridiculous most of us like nice guys atleast i do. further:tis may be confusing even im having trouble understanding what im writing kinda but,yea i agree with u basicaly-lol xoxo<3*blood*
13. check i had a similar questions no words can describe the anger i feel about this especially girls GOSH THIS QUESTION MAKES ME ANGRY LOL I HOPE THESE GIRLS REALISE WHAT THEY DO SERIOUSLY
14. well in a way to me its true. i mean im such a nice girl i get called a sweetheart all the time. i got cheated on and everything. those guys just werent right for me and i found the right guy who doesnt do anything like that.
15. you are right that stereo type is not completely true... usually it is just that there are soooooo many cases where it is... typically there is a nice person that really likes another nice person but speaks up too late. but on the other hand when ppl start dating most of them make wrong chices and try to be with someone completely different than themselves. by the time they realize to just go on love and friendship they have alraedy hurt someone.
16. Maybe they are unsure about people they think they know
17. Perhaps, but I want to know who dates the girls with the big asses... THAT'S who I want to date!
18. I think we see them as somebody else sometimes and maybe only see their good side. Does that make sense? I mean, who is obvisouly going to point out the bad things about that person. I know as a girl when you like somebody bad, we can convince ourselves that we can make them change and show people the true, good person that they really are. Please answer my question: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ArPVEmjGzJ1yQEhbCciYOr7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080630191402AAU7Xre
19. I think people have different opinions of other people. Just because they think the person is a b***h/player doesn't mean the person they are dating feels the same way about that person.
20. idk.. maybe like nice guys they thinks the bad girls are hot and sexy or whatever... and nice girls, they wanted their men to be hot and cute....
21. it is possible. mostly all tha nice girls that i kno are chasin after "bad dudes" and those same dudes are freakin them cuz they kno she wont leave and she wants to be down for him. and "nice dudes" like bytches cuz they want to see a change in scenary and have a woman bossin they azz around. dat how i see it.
22. well i think that people r just like that , ALOT of girls just judge them on how they look instead of how they act ...and MOST boys r like that to(:
23. Yes it is a stage old stereo type. But there is actually some truth to it in some cases. Most people are attracted to the complete opposite of themselves. That is why some "Nice" Guys go for the "Bitches" and "Nice" Girls go for the "Tough" Guys. 9 times out of 10 it is all show.. a front that people put on to keep from showing their real side. A protection so to speak.
24. Totally agree, if you look at the answers theres always people saying "Don't look at me I married a nice (guy/girl)!". They just make that generalization because they aren't putting themselves out there for the person.
25. well the reason why nice guys date the whores is because well they wonna try something new and they wnna be popular and well i dont know THE nice girls dat dangerous guys because they wonna be protected by a tough man so they feel safe!!
26. lol im dating betch
27. I say when you meet the person that brings out the best of you then things will go great. Even when things are bad. If you have a lack of communication and self-esteem then this brings bad things out. It is the way you handle things. I blame myself for the people I chose to date and the way things went. It was my fault for not putting a stop to it sooner. I have learned that because of my insecurities I have passed up good men in my life. The thing I dodn't dwell on was where are they now and can I go back. People change. There was a man I couldn't get out of my head for years while I stayed with my cheating now ex. I ran into people that know the guy I have thought about. The timing couldn't have been better. I got in touch with him while dating my current bf and he is engaged to be married this September. I am so happy for him. We are now friends and I am in love with my bf. I know he is a great guy and has someone great in his life. While I have a great man in my life and am happy too. Noone is perfect, but it about how hard you try to make a great life and change what isn't going so great in your life. I am thankful to have had the experiences bad and good. It has made me wake up to being stronger and stand up for myself!
28. It's true and it's not at the same time but we all know that negative situations are always publicized more than the "happy ever after stories". Just because we are a natural pessimistic society. Unfortunatly this has happened to myself... nasty whore!!!!
29. i know right. i'm a really nice girl, but i'm always attracted to players and stuff. idk. i guess i just like the "i'm in the control vibe" they putt out. and they seem more manly and stuff
30. I don't know but I also see that myself.