What is the best dating service to meet nice guys?

I tried matchcom but didn't work out. Eharmony and perfectmatch are expensive and I am undecided about joining. Why is it so hard to meet a nice guy who is ready for a commitment????!!!!Or can you recomend another way for me to meet nice guys? (I am 34)

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1. I am not to sure, but it would be nice to know. I have heard that Lavalife is good. There is a new one and it is through match.com. If you find one then pass it on down the line. cheers(f27)
2. bigdaddyj.com
3. mate1.com worked for me. I found my soulmate there :)
4. Try this site-it's always free to answer and you can initiate contact free by sending unlimited free smiles. It won't cost you a thing as there are more men than women there and the men are always willing to buy the credits.You don't have to post your picture publicly and can have it hidden in a backstage-viewed only by those you give a pass for as long as you dictate eg 5 minutes, 5 days or whatever. Also no-one can save, copy or print your picture from this site www.lavalife.com
5. I met my current wife of four years in a Yahoo! chat room...I lived in the middle of Ohio and she lived in Philadelphia. Six months previous to that, I had divorced my wife and was ready to start seeing other people, so I tried online dating and talking to girls in chat rooms. But, I had a plan. I built a rapport with them, ask them important questions spaced out over several conversations, often the same questions asked in a different phrasing, and if I found them truthful, they made the short list. It worked, and now I'm happily married with a 2 year old baby girl, all thanks to Yahoo! chat. Didn't cost a dime, and you can interview someone as much as you want until you get the desired results.