What will a woman do if she sees an attractive man at a public place?
Let say a woman is looking for dating, and she sees a man at a public place (eg. Mall, Gym, Library, Beach etc…) that she is interested then what is she going to do? Nowadays, what are the first three choices for women to look for a long-term relationship? (eg. Pay or free internet dating site)
Public Comments
- I will not do anything because i am shy and am afraid of coming off as creepy if i make the moves on him. Besides, he may not like me because i am not PC! There is this guy i like but i gave up on him because of the above.
- I'm not a woman but I wish they would express their feelings a little more open . It wouldn't hurt. No one thinks you are a loose woman if you smile at somebody and say Hi.
- I really don't believe in following the unwritten codes society seems to have about women making the first move but I feel that if you want something, you should go for it. If I was that woman I would casually walk up to the guy and introduce myself. If he says he's taken, I'll still talk because you never know when you'll meet your next best friend. I just won't flirt. It just depends on the conversation really. In terms of a long-term relationship, I'm at a loss because the past few that I've had didn't last long. I feel that at this point in my life I need to re-evaluate myself. When it's time to date again I'll know. The people I'd date were either schoolmates, co-workers, and one or two customers. I went to the club once and met someone but our schedules clashed and he seemed to be a better friend than possible boyfriend. I too would like to know the choices we have...A lot of people think the club is the only place to meet people other than dating sites because that's what the media tells us. That's my opinion though. I've always played it safe by dating the kinds of people I dated and that might be one of the reasons why the relationships didn't work.
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