sex-free relationship?
Is it too wrong to deny sex in a relationship? The last one I was in we only had sex twice and I cut it off cuz I felt like we were in the wrong and he did some wierd shit like in the middle of sex tried to close legs and keep fucking like it pleased me when I push him off. I just don't want a sexually relationship cuz most of the guys I meet wants me to give it up and depend on them only to prove that I can not trust/depend on them. I'm only 22 and I don't believe sleeping with every guy I date. This guy was just a screw up, but is it okay to ask this from future bfs? Sorry I am online using my t-mobile sidekick 3 and sometimes my questions end showing up twice
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- nope, definitely not. if youre not comfortable having sex, then dont - its really just as simple as that. im 20, been sexually active for a couple of years now but im about to be 21 and ive recently decided that i dont really want it right now. like you, i dont think that i have to sleep with every guy i date - i think if theres that chemistry there or its something i want to share with him, then i will. but if not, then i have that choice not to. i think its a good idea that you do let your future bfs know that you arent a virgin, but that doesnt mean youre gona give it up to him either. let him know that when youre ready, if you are ready, then you will - but until then, if then, he'll need to be patient. i hope that helps! good luck!
