Shy Guys Dating Help Knowledge Base
Is it a good idea for shy guys to date shy girls? I'm 17 and have never dated a girl before. I'm a Junior in High School and I have never been on a first date before with a girl. I am shy but I can get pretty out going if I know allot of people and I am completely shy around people I don't know. But if I start to know a shy girl is it a good idea for a shy guy to date a shy girl or is it a bad idea? I'm just saying though, some of the outgoing girls I don't like and most of them are loud and snobs and I find quiet girls more mature etc. And I am a nice guy also :D And if the rumors are true. Isn't this the other way around? Shy guy dates outgoing girl and outgoing guy dates shy girl? Or does it have to do with each persons personalities and if they like each other or not? Sorry I just need someones help here. I'm not well experienced with dating or anything. Sorry if anyone gets offended or anything. I'm just wondering how does all this work.
Shy guys and dating girls? HELP!? There is this guy and he is telling people we are going out. We hug and once he put his arm around me during a movie. But throughout the whole movie, he was getting very nervous. He hasn't asked me out yet. He is extremely shy and has never done anything with a girl before, not even hung out with one before. He is a real gentleman and has five sisters. You'd think, they would help him out in this department. I don't how to help him and I am afraid if I like touch his leg or something if he will freak out or something. Should I just wait or give something a try. I have been so called dating him for like a month now. What should I do and what do you think is going through his mind. I think he definetly likes me, but he is afraid to lay a hand on me. He is extremely shy and I am extremely outgoing, so you do the math. HELP!!
Shy Guys ??? im dating a guy ... and he used to be a friend ,,, kinda but i told him i like him and he likes me and were going out ... and i used to talk to him a bit and hes bineg really shy and i talked to him about it and hes getting a little bit better but i wanna know if theres any way i can help him come out of his shell quicker :P
Hey Shy guys ;) how do i deal with you all? I Need major help im falling in love with one of you :)? Well last summer i noticed that i had feelings for one of my buddies Brandon i never felt for him the first 2 years ive known him but this year i told my little brother also known as his bff that i liked him my bro told him and he was like no! your kidding she doesnt he didnt believe him so i told him myself and it was cool. then we started hanging out more and i really got into him like hes shy never had a girlfriend never kissed but idc i really love him because he has an amazing personality and hes hot on top of it, but im like sociall like alot i talk so much im popular while hes just to himself but idc i really like him for the millionth time, however people seem to oppose, he bought me this little secret santa thing at our high school when little love notes and candy canes he sent me one hes always blowing kisses and stuff but he doesnt know how to deal with me like he cant express himself fully im a virgin hes a virgin but i kisse and stuff before and ive had boyfriends but he hasnt had a girl yet and he said that he likes me so today some girl (ugly, dark (nooffense i <33 dark ppl) too tall and bucktooth) and told asked him "are u guys dating?" he said no then she said to him "Don't go out with her" my bff told me that she over heard this and he said to her thats messed up. So my situation is dealing with him and trying to get him to fall for me like i am for him but hes into achitecture and all like alot and hes like a sweet heart but im afraid that i will lsoe hi and i dont want too i know people are jealous but i want to know how to deal with a shy guy shy guys out there help me please!!!!!!!!!!! && chiks 2 bc i just feel like kissing hima nd not letting him go but im not sure how he feels yet. THNX!!!!
guy, dating, shy problems? i like a guy in ma class and i think he kinda likes me but there 3 problems that stop us from goin out. 1. i am not ready to date yet!!! 2. he has ways to find things out that i think he mite not noe, and stuff i havnt told him, its like he is phsychic, its so weird 3. am not a cmplete open person as in am not that outgoin am basically shy. P.S. AM LEAVING DURING DA SUMMER BREAKKKKK. I WNT C HIM SINCE HE IS GOIN TO HIS COUNTRY. I HATE THISSSSSSSSSS. ANY IF U CAN help me!!!!!!!!!!!!! > sm1 help me i need help, i dnt noe wut to do
How do you feel about dating shy guys? There is this guy, B who I've had my eye on for a while. He is cute, smart, and funny. Only he's a bit innocent. Never had a girlfriend, then again neither have I a boyfriend that is. And he is super shy.and so am I... doesnt make me feel "protected" if you know what i mean.. Im asian, and a senior in high school. And I was had just gone through a phase of infatuation with white guys.. but maybe for now B is my best bet. we have health ed together and were in groups to share problems we "made up" to find solutions for them. He changed the names in his problem but it was about him and his best friends, 2 guys having girlfriends and braging about them and how he wants a girlfriend and cant find the one.... should i move to sit near him and start talking? i just feel lazy, i dont want to start anything..
Shy Guys, will you help me reach him? Hi guys, I have had really strong feelings for this guy for all of HS and college. He is so incredibly shy and akward towards women though. I told him via email that i really liked him and i didnt feel like he liked me but i was glad we were friends. I left it open for him to answer but he didnt. We remained friends.That was 2 years ago but i cant stop thinking about him and wondering if he is just shy or if he really doesnt like me. A week after i told him how i felt, he wrote in his blog how he is so shy and always lets good things pass him by. He sounded really upset about it and ranted on about how he feels so nerdy and nervous around women. Was he reaching out to me? I think, though he is shy and quiet, he is perfect for me and I could bring him out of his shell if he wanted. He has never had a gf but he asks girls out a and almost always gets rejected. Im not really fat or ugly and we get along sooo well. ive dated guys since then but i help thinking about what could b Any suggestions on what to say or do? should i just leavve him be?
what do shy girls usually do when it comes to guys and dating? Shy girls usually don't talk to guys they like or find attractive. I'm curious to know for those who are shy or really shy. Do you ever end up with a guy you like at first sight or do you end up with someone that you are really close to and able to talk to, kind of like a best friend or not even, someone that is not appealing but you're able to hold conversation?
Dating pointers for shy guys? I'm really shy about talking to people I don't know, especially girls. I don't really talk a lot anyway, but I'm not ugly or anything. I always here about having to be the "alpha male" in a group to attract women, and I was just wondering if there are any other ways.
my dilemma with guys and dating... Help please...? Okay so basically i have a problem with dating and telling guys no... I either don't like them that way or they are just too late. I know i seem to be really screwed up... You see i am almost eighteen and a few guys have asked me out but i just don't like them that way ( like previously stated) and now I am so scared that if i never date anyone i will never get married. It just seems like all of the guys at school seem to think that i am really ugly. i just have no confidence in really anything and it makes me really depressed. For the longest time i have been trying to find myself (like for years...) no joke. but I think that i find myself but then i get confused so i keep on changing. I think that this may be one of my problems but i have such bad self-esteem. I just tend to be too shy around guys and when i finally let them see the real me they like me but the ones i like. won't give me the time of day. so i just don't know what to do can you help me? any advice please
Shy Guys??? I am sorta dating this guy and when we hang out he is REALLY SHY. He has told me that he likes me a lot and he would pretty much do anything to be with me, but it is so hard to get to know him because he barely talks. What can I do to make him open up and be himself? I need to loosen the mood and make him feel comfortable. ANy suggestions?
Do bi guys shy away from dating gay guys? For some reason, I think I'd have better luck with bi guys. I myself am gay. To me, though, it doesn't matter if he's bi or gay. Trumpet, I said it doesn't really matter. If I love someone, I could care less if they are either bi or gay. That's not important. I was just wondering if bi guys tend to date other bi guys or gay guys, that's all.
Dating advice on shy guys? 10 POINTS babyy!? Well i have a thing for this guy in my hs. All my friends found all this information about him through there friends and other people. One of my close friends even became really cool with his ex-gf. So i met her and she wasss reallly nice. And my friend told her that i liked him. Could that have been a mistake in telling her? Anyway. She told me they dated for 6 MONTHS and that throughout thoes whole months he was tooo SHY to talk to her :S. His closests friend told her that usually hes shy and gets outgoing when he gets to know you. But im pretty sure in 6 months he can at least talk. She said he didnt show her any affection either. Like they would kiss ( a small peck he would push her if went to far :S) and he wouldnt even say i love u or anything it was akward and silent and he would leave right away. :S. lmaoo. He also made alot of excuses so he wouldnt have to see her he was in this punkska band and he plays the guitar so he always would tell her that he doesnt have time right now. But then my friend brii who has him in his class told me that hes really funny and makes everyone laugh in his class and that hes a really nice guy. But then my other friend whos his friend told me that hes shy and needs to know the person to start getting more involved. Like ive had a shy bf before and i absoultetly hated it! in gr.8 he would be to nervous to even look at me and like he later became really akward and he told me that he was a very shy guy but i didnt know he was that shy and he use to smoke pot in order to be able to talk to me! so i broke up with him. I like this guy but what can i do so he wont be that shy? like form a friendship first even tho it will be realllyy sloww. or not wait and just find somone else?
Dating for really shy guys? I'm really shy about talking to people I don't know, especially girls. I don't really talk a lot anyway, but I'm not ugly or anything. I always here about having to be the "alpha male" in a group to attract women, and I was just wondering if there are any other ways.
I am dating a shy guy..how do i get him to open up? I am a reformed shy person, so I know how hard it is to come out of your shell when you are shy. I have had two dates with a shy guy, and I can't figure out how to get him to come out his shell. I don't want to have to be the one to initiate everything, I really wanted him to step up and kiss me last night, but he doesn't. We talked this morning and he told me that is what he wanted, but he couldn't figure out if I wanted the same thing. I live by the saying "No risk, no reward" I am not the type to wait for a hint normally....I would have just gone for it. But I just am tired of always initiating things. I was the first to initiate contact, the first to hug, the first to acknowledge that I like him...is this what I can expect. Do you think when he gets more comfortable with me he will step up and make the first move eventually? If we even have any firsts left at that point?....Help!
Guys ....do you like dating shy girls? I am shy and i am afraid its a turn off to guys.I think they want someone who is wild and crazy.I tried to come out of my shell but its hard. So have you ever dated someone who was shy?
What do shy girls usually do when it comes to guys and dating? Shy girls usually don't talk to guys they like or find attractive. I'm curious to know for those who are shy or really shy. Do you ever end up with a guy you like at first sight or do you end up with someone that you are really close to and able to talk to, kind of like a best friend or not even, someone that is not appealing but you're able to hold conversation?
help on dating this shy guy? i met this guy and we both like each other a lot. we hung out at my house for a while, watch some movies and we cuddled (he did not hug me good-bye) he calls me everyday and before we are about to hang up, he asks "you want to hang out" or says "we should hang out". he never initiates anything i like the guy to make the first move but i really like this one. so my question is - does he really like me or just keeping me a distant so he will not lose but still have me. and if yes, where would a shy like to hang out? (no eating)
Outgoing girl dating shy guy? I have this guy friend that I've become interested in as more than friends. We get along very well and I enjoy spending time with him. He's pretty quiet, but not shy. If you talk to him, he opens up and is very funny. One thing that concerns me though is that he doesn't like to go out much, it takes a lot of convincing to get him to come out with us. I dont know if that would bother me in the future because I am very outgoing. Any advice on what I should do? Is this a good match?
A question for the shy guys out there about dating~? I'm very interested in this guy, and I can tell, mostly from studying body language and the way he speaks, that he likes me, too. However, he has never been in a relationship, and last week, when he asked someone to prom, they shot him down! My main question is, at this point, would it be wise to let things develope on their own and hope he initiates, or, as a shy person, would he feel more comfortable with me making the move? I know that everyone's different, and sometimes there's no way to tell, but I thought I would ask around! Thank you!
Girls: Do you like or dislike shy guys? Would you date a shy guy? I am shy and I am not sure whether or not girls like shy guys. I still go to school and sometimes I find it hard to find the girl that is right for me. A lot of the times I feel kind of sad because it is my last year of high school and I have never dated anyone or ever felt really close to anyone. When I see a girl that I like (usually shy like me) I want to get to know her more, but I have always had a difficult time expressing my feelings, mainly because "I do not think I am good enough" or "she is probably already dating someone" etc. and I kind of just drop the ball and move along. My mom says that I am good looking, but you know how mothers are. Plus my confidence is kind of low, I try putting on fake confidence, but it doesn't always work. Anyways I enjoy listening to music a lot, I play the piano, guitar, enjoy spending time with friends, writing poems, and I enjoy playing video games. Another thing is that I am 6'3 but I am skinny (around 150 lbs). If you want to see pics: http://i246.photobucket.com/albums/gg108/Bryan71590/0427091618.jpg http://i246.photobucket.com/albums/gg108/Bryan71590/0427091619.jpg http://i246.photobucket.com/albums/gg108/Bryan71590/0430091814a.jpg
How do you get a guy who is shy about dating to go out with you? Okay, so theirs this guy who want to date, but from what ive seen so far, he seems too shy/afraid/insecure to start a relationship with a girl, even though hes 18 and never had a girlfriend. What should I do people? Really, I have no clue.... Green_roi is obviously insecure about his penis size.
Talking to more guys? Dating? I am 13 and I want to date. I at least want guy friends. I am really shy. I have 3 friends in my entire school. Recently on facebook I trie talking to a guy. well I talked to him (from my school) and thought we were clicking. Well I asked him if we could talk in school, and in a nice way he called me weird and said he thought it was best to stop talking to me. Then says he never really wanted to talk to me. Anyway how can I meet and talk to more guys with out it being ackward? DO I just walk up and say Hi? WHAT DO I TALK ABOUT????? HELP????? Is it weird to just walk up and say hi? Can I walk up and ask a question?
are shy guys screwed when it comes to dating? I am so shy and I like this girl, and even though I told her I liked her, all she said was aww and hugged me. But anyways, do you think an outgoing girl would go out with someone who is shy? I do not know how to ask her out and I dont think I will be able to initiate a lot of things...are shy guys basically screwed when it comes to having a girlfriend ?
Guys would you date a shy girl? im really shy, but im real outgoing and fun when i get to know you or with my friends. people say im really pretty. and in my school the shy girls are the ones who are virgins till marriage, real nice, will never lie, dont talk behind backs...ect. is that a good thing? i dont like perv. guys also. i do talk in class, but not alot. but when you get to know me you will see the real me. would you date me if you knew me from reading the description?
Are a majority young guys shy, compared to girls? Ok, today I was on the college campus with some friends, and we were talking about girls and stuff. A few fine girls passed us by. One of my friends was going to hook me up with her, and sadly, I left to return back to class. After I heard he brung a girl over for me, I felt shame and disappointed that I blew my chance! So the question is, are a majority of guys shy and nervous when it comes to girls and dating, compared to vice versa? And do girls really have it easy when it comes to dating and guys?
Dating a shy guy? I'm dating this guy who I've been friends with for awhile. I thought I was terribly shy and inexperienced when it came to relationships, but this guy takes the cake. We started talking about becoming a couple 2 months ago and just recently started dating. The problem is he gets extremely nervous if I get too close to him (other than a hug). He's taking me on a vacation (just the two of us) which makes me even more confused as to how he can't work up the nerve to kiss me. That being said, there are two things I'm absolutely sure of. 1) He's straight as an arrow 2) he does not have another girlfriend and he hasn't had one for awhile. Anyway, any suggestions? Any shy guys want to explain the cerebral functions of this fellow? Should I take it slower? Should I push the issue?
Would a girl be more shy/skeptical when dating a guy of another race? You see, I'm a brown dude and I have a thing for Caucasian girls. But I'm extremely skeptical when it comes to asking them out. Because the thing is I've been checked a couple of times by really pretty girls (some of them look away after, others smile without looking at me). I've noticed that they dont really act this way towards other Caucasian guys.
Shy guy needs dating advice...? so this may be a little lengthy, i'll try to cut it down a bit Essentially i'm a shy person... I don't like to engage people (guys or girls alike) in conversation unless they've engaged me... Even when they do engage me i'm always fumbling over what to say... I'm a very odd guy... I like chick flicks and being romantic and i'm undecisive about things because i'm afraid if i make a bad decision everyone is going to resent me for it... I'm constantly apologizing, all of which don't make me seem masculine... I have low self-esteem because of my upbringing... All of which brings me to my point; I don't know how to approach girls when i find them attractive and want to date them... I always feel like i need a reason to go up and start talking to them and if i don't have a reason then they'll be judging me the whole time, wondering why i'm talking to them but they'll be nice to me but hope that i'll go away soon... On top of that i don't know what to say when i get nervous and i get really nervous when i go up and talk to girls... I'm not a bad looking guy... i have some tricep definition, and i'm thin... Another problem i have is when i do get the nerve to talk and i try to act confident and funny i come off as a condescending jerk... I know i only do that as a defense mechanism to not let people in but i hate it. Anyways, how can i approach women... I've been rejected before and it wasn't as bad as i thought it would be but it was still a low blow to my morale, making me think that i'm an undesirable person to be around I should add that i think i'm cursed... Every girl who i've been in some sort of a relationship with since august has cheated on me and left me for another guy and each of those 4 couples are still together... What's wrong with me? and how can i approach women more easily Thanks for the swift kick in the ass, i really needed that... I feel like a whiny little bitch and i'm being a whiny little bitch... but i need to stop that... I need to take control of my life... thanks for the input
Do shy guys make good boyfriends? I am in the beginning stages of dating a shy guy. It's like pulling teeth to get him to make a move, but he's super receptive when I initiate talking, hand holding, etc. Do these guys get better as they get to know you or are the relationships pretty one-sided? I want to know if it's worth putting effort into starting a relationship with this guy or if shy ones are pretty much hopeless at romance.
Dating question... do guys mind shy girls? Hi :) I'm just wondering, do guys mind shy girls? I've never really been on a "real" date. There are a couple of guys that like me (But I don't like them) but besides that, I really haven't known anybody. I'm shy, and I blush really easily and I'm pretty quiet, especially around guys that I think are cute, lol. Do you think that when I go to college, will guys talk to me / want to get to know me even if I appear shy and quiet at first? Once I get to know / spend plenty of time with people I open up and love to do all sorts of things, but I think people think I am stuck-up because I'm so shy and quiet. So- are guys just not interested because I'm shy or do you think they won't mind?
i am a shy 15 yer old guy any dating tips help? i am stright and in 9th grade i am good at talking to my frends but not good at making freds and it is almost imposable for me to talk to a grll. i even have a hard time talking to my lab partner in science about the experment we are working on
Dating the Shy Guy? I've just stepped back into the dating scene, after taking a year off, to re-coup after dating someone for 5 1/2 years. Recently, I met a guy, through friends, and we've seen each other a couple times, but always with our friends. He's super nice, hard-working, intelligent, and really shy. The first time we met he gave me a hard time for giving some guy the time of day. But after then, he's been nice and somewhat conversational. He seems very interested, but I'd like to stop seeing him through our friends. I'd like to get to know him on a personal level. But I've never been the girl to make the first move and I don't know what the waiting period is to see if he calls.
GUYS: HOW WOULD U FEEL DATING SHY GIRLS??? OR HOW DID YOU FEEL? Why r girls so shy sometimes when it comes to relationships? I tend to have that problem and its really affecting me. I don't know whats wrong, but I want to talk but nothing comes out. And when it does, I could never hold on to the conversation. I would give short answers. So guys, how did it feel to date a shy girl? I need to know how did u make her feel comfortable, etc. etc. Thanx n advance, city gurl
Guys: Would you date a shy guy? If a guy was kind of shy and reserved would you date him? He opens up a lot more later on but can be Very shy, nervous and reserved at first.
Girls - just how much are women turned off by super shy/nerdy guys? Please be honest... I want to know, even if it hurts, because I think I know the answer, but I just want to be sure. Let's suppose that the guy in question actually mustered the courage to talk to you (girl), but completely butchered his "line" or whatever he tries to say to tell you that he is interested in you. And he comes across as not very socially skilled in general either - whether in spoken or non-spoken language, and you can tell that easily. Would you really be as turned off as I am reading in some various sources seem to suggest? Again please be honest - I don't want the standard answers of "awww I love dating shy guys" or "don't worry you'll meet someone eventually" even though those kind of answers are nice, they aren't helpful... I basically fit the profile of this guy, so I need to know just how bad my condition is (the articles I've read seem to make it look like I have no chances at all with women as it is now because of my lack of sociability)
How do you deal with dating a shy guy? Ok I know he likes me but he is so painfully shy. I don't think he will ever get the gut to kiss me or anything. This is really turning me off which is rubbish because I really like him. How do I deal with this? We are kind of in a relationship now but I do not really know how... I hate being the one have to initiate everything.
Dating a very SHY guy?? i've been dating this guy for 4 months. i can tell that he likes me cause he wanna spend alot of time with me but the thing is that he's so shy and i know he'll never confess. he keeps looking for excuses to cover his real intentions. like the other time he wanted to stay for a longer time with me,he looked for all sorts of excuses,even when he asked me out,he gotta come up with an excuse to do so. i mean why can't he just be honest about it and stop giving excuses? what should i do about it cause i feel like it's not going anywhere.
Any advice for dating someone who is shy around guys? Most of the other girls I've gone out with have been really outgoing, so this is a bit of an adjustment for me. From what I can tell she's mostly just shy around guys she likes, I figure I'm going to have to make the first move to let her know I'm interested, but I'm also kind of afraid of scaring her off... We've known each other for about a few weeks, we're both about 21-ish. I'm really starting to grow attached to this girl, I mean I like her alot, I'm just not used to dealing with girls who are extremely shy...has anyone else had experience with this? Did you like wait 2,021 years before you kissed her for instance? =P
shy guys need your help? is he shy and interested or..? imm kinda stressed over the 1st date? there're some weird stuff my friend does.looks at me in class and looks away when caught -he talks to girls easily/sits by them. but he gets tongue-tied when it comes to me. mumbles when he talks -he'd not have physical contact but when i move in close to hear what hes saying, he doesnt move away -he changed his bus route for mine.and on it he made like he wanted my no but kept his phone -i went to his orchestral concert and he saw me.during the interval instead of walking by where i sat,he took a dif route -he's pretty built so he'd rub his biceps and stuff when he's near me:/ at road junctions, he'd turn right round to wave if he knows i'm a distance behind -usually looks at me when i talk to girls but when its guys he looks away. should i ask him out? i feel pretty stressed that the first date can't fail..and i just dont know how to relax and go about it.. any suggestions? thanks! :)
Do guys date/marry shy girls? i want to know will a guy date a pretty girl that has no friends. i want to know this b/c i'm a shy girl who has no friends. also what will make people not talk to you even though you are friendly, and sweet? and how do you start and hold a conversation. with people in general? i am almost 20 and i have no friends
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