Nice Guys Dating Help Knowledge Base
Hey, I am a gay, how do I go about dating, were do I find nice guys to love? I live in the Portland, OR area, if you can help me PLEASE give any info you have, I really dont have any idea how to find a guy to date
Is it still true that nice guys finish last- dating/relationship wise I mean? And also, what is an Omega Male? Ive been a beta/omega male most of my life but now I want to become an alpha male a** h*** but would that help me to get more women or what? Because women say they want a nice guy but then they go for the alpha male/bad boy...
What is your opinion on this blog about nice guys and dating? I saw this recently, and I thought it was both entertaining and intelligent. He wasn't really ranting or being bitter . . . he was just telling the cold, hard truth. What are your thoughts? http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/lax/483318927.html
Why do women always try to go for the nice guys but end up dating the bad boys? most women who grew up in violent or arguing households would try to go for the nice guys but usually end up dating the bad boys and not the nice guys. Why do they do this?
since young women reject nice guys. should nice guys start dating old, divorced, or separated women? it seems older women are more friendly to nice young guys.
PLEASE HELP! i feel like something is wrong with the nice guy i am dating!? ok i am 21...used to the assholes and games and college frat beer chugging guys. All of my guy friends are like that and I have never known otherwise. I am not dating this older guy who has a career a house everything...and just achieved all of this so this is why he is just now seeking a relationship. he is amazing and sweet and does all of these things for me. some of the things i find kind of cheesey b/c i don't know of guys my age doing that for girls my age. he treats me to everthing takes me to fancy dinners brings me coffee or food while i am studying....and tells me exactly how he feels about me. is he so genuine and sweet however sometimes i my 21 yr old self comes out and is like why is this guy doing all of this for me?! i can't help but think this is all kind of corny and hokey. am i feeling this way bc i am so young. is this what people in their late 20's do for girls they like?i have always wanted a guy like this but i am freaked out bc i know this will be serious
Why do some women insist on dating guys who are "not nice"? I know a whole lot of women who date "not nice" guys and then become surprised and upset when the guy reveals himself as a "not nice" guy after numerous prior warnings that he's "not nice"?
I want to date nice guys I tried online dating service, yahoo personals, every media of meeting? My problem is I don't want to have sex in the first date or in the second and I don't lie about it its very important for me to know about that person and I need to have mental connection in order to go any further.I seriously want to start as friends and then move forward. for me there is no set pattern it has to be with flow. But all online guys or the ones I met for coffee like me but once I tell them about my preference I don't hear from them or they say they can't beleive there are still girls like me out there.I don't care but is that right there are no more decent guys who want to date is it all about sex and nothing more.I feel like I am losing hope to actually find someone to date and I really want to know is it too boring for guys to date girl like me?I don't want tochange. Movizi, I am pretty attractive thats why every one wants to make out rather talk or go out with me for a date. Thanks to all for answering I feel better I am not alone and I am doing what I want to do.
Do women like drama? If so why? Same goes for nice women dating bad guys.? Why do some women run from nice guys. It is like they dont know how to handle it like he is a unicorn or something same goes for some nice women going for the guy. It is like some women need that "drama" in their life for some reason or they will make some drama to try to push the nice guy off the deep end to add excitement. I think they are almost asking to being single forever or something. If i sense a drama queen I run. No joke. The world is crazy enough as it is. Post your comments. Tell your friends.
What is the best dating service to meet nice guys? I tried matchcom but didn't work out. Eharmony and perfectmatch are expensive and I am undecided about joining. Why is it so hard to meet a nice guy who is ready for a commitment????!!!!Or can you recomend another way for me to meet nice guys? (I am 34)
Help.....? Ok well i have this problem where i like get attatched to all of the bad boys, all the drug attics, and all the guys that have like bunches and bunches of tattoos. But every time im with a guy like that all i do is get treated like shit, i mean like cussed out all the time hell i have even been slapped around a couple of times. But no matter how hard i try to stay away from those ppl the more they come to me. I have tryed dating nice guys but they are just like a turn off to me. What is my problem?
so I have the possibility of dating three seemingly nice guys, but ? I feel I need closure before I let go, I deeply care for the guy I was dating or at least think I was dating, but I also feel like he just took me out like trash, How do I move on and stop letting him have this power over my life. still want to wait for him to see if we can work it out
Do nice guys really finish last in dating? I keep getting told im sweet and a great guy. But i also get told im too nice. I told on a date she is really more into pretty boys and the bad boys. Im pretty shy at first and is extremely difficult for me to ask a woman out and then i get shot down or told im too nice. So do nice guys really finish last? Are there women out there that like sweet, polite and just nice guys?
nice Guys always date the bitches, and nice girls always date the players? I see soo many questions about "Why are all the nice guys dating Whores and bitces" and "why are all the Nice girls dating the dangerous tough guys" and i was just thinking this cant be possible. I think that most people who complain about this stuff are just too shy/social inept/ crazy to get any person of the other sex and they just want to blame there problems on this age old stereotype. What do you all think?
With dating, why do most guys act all nice and mild-mannered and then expect her to be horny over that? Acting all nice and mild-mannered doesn't make women horny, it just keeps them feeling fine and nothing more. Talking sexual to them, sexually seducing them, hitting on them, calling them "babe", blowing kisses to them, making licking motions with their tongue to them, telling her how horny he is while seeing her in that bikini, THAT makes women horny. So again, I just have to ask, why go those guys who act non-sexual instead EXPECT her to be sexually interested in him?
What makes nice guys not datable to girls? I've always noticed how girls seem to go for these asshole pricks that don't give a shit about them and it depresses me because they deserve so much more but they never date a nice guy, we're cute and awesome too but we seem to just become friends. idk.. so i want to ask the ladies, why is that?
Why do women remain friends with the smart nice guys, but end up dating the ...? douch bag guys with an I.Q. of two digits who treat women like crap?
What are nice dating sites in the internet to meet German men? Will be for business some days in Frankfurt and wanna meet some nice guys
Why do only the Attractive guys on Dating sites like Plenty of Fish get Attention ? Also why do Woman on there profiles always say Msg me im looking for a nice guy im outgoing but they never message back on sites like Plenty of Fish .If your on a Dating Site chances are the guys are not Normal...
help any tips on dating after being with same guy for yrs cant even remember how to flirt with guys? dont want to look desperate but would be nice to date again any tips ?
Interracial Dating: Why are Black Women so vicious towards nice African American guys who date White Women? Why are White Men and Black Women in this country so racist against interracial relationships between African American Men and White Women? A European girlfriend of mine asked me one day, “Why are White Men and Black Women in this country so racist?” And she went on to say, “I notice they both hate to see African American men and White Women in interracial relationships.” I first laughed a bit because she was not the only person who had asked me that question; I also laughed because White Men and Black Women probably isn’t aware that many other cultures notice this. I explained to her why a large percentage of White Guys – not all – but a large majority are so angry about this; and why it’s a cultural norm for Black Women to be angry about this. I told her that men, by nature are attracted to femininity - and women, by nature are attracted to masculinity. White, Asian and other cultures of women have an innocence and a femininity that Black Women don’t have and can’t compete with because it’s been taken away from them and they’ve been hardened by their experience throughout history; and African American Men have a style, a rhythm, a sexuality and a masculinity that racially-competitive White Men and many other cultures of men don’t have and can’t compete with. I’ve traveled to many countries and noticed African American Rap and R&B music to be very popular and being played on many of the radio stations in those countries. This music, style and unique form of masculinity is very popular and it attracts women (as well as allot of the very pretty and beautiful ones) from many different cultures and it makes many macho-racially-competitive men who are incapable of assimilating or competing with it very jealous. The relationships between African American Men and White and Asian Women is a natural attraction of masculinity and femininity as well as compatibility. First, I would like to say that I’m not at all apologetic for my question and for what I say, because what I say is intended for a very specific group. Some of my good friends are White Guys and I would never say or do anything to hurt or insult them, and they are cool with my relationship. But I’m not at all apologetic to the jealous, racist people who I described. I’m very blunt because I feel, if racist people have no shame in how they behave, why should I have any shame in how I address them and their behavior.
Why are nice guys overlooked as potential dating choices? Most nice guys are seen by some women as only a friend or like a brother,never in a romantic sense. The very women who claim the nice guy would make a great catch for any lucky woman are themselves married or in a serious relationship. The advice married or a woman already in a relationship does not count as encouragement. The advice married or a woman already in a relationship does not count as encouragement. Women have nice guys are friends,but very few women would actually date or get involved with them.
who knows more reasons why women date losers instead of nice guys? it is more fun to complain about them guys who actually like you just aren’t challenging or exciting when you do date nice guys, they turn into losers anyway, so why not save time and go for te loser in the first place? you wont get as emotionally attached to the loser, so you’ll be in more control all the women want them, so they must be worth having affection means more when it comes from a guy who doesn’t normally give it they are guaranteed to cheat on you, so someone else can endure his lack of love making skills instead there is no need to feel guilty for abusing or deceiving them losers will actually tell you when they don’t like what you’re doing instead of getting mad about it six months later you are looking for someone you cant trust, and wont care about too much, who will abuse you mentally and financially, but you don’t know any lawyers
im dating a realy nice guy who tends to put his exwifes feelins before mine help!? they have 2 kids but im tired of bein second place to how she feels or wat she wants hell shes already remarried y cant my boyfriend move on as well
Guys is it hard to find an attractive nice/sweet girl to date? Girls always say its hard to find a nice guy. I am just wondering if the reverse is true. By dating, i mean someone who said yes to you.
Ladies, what age do you stop dating the bad boys and go with the nice guys? and do you view the nice guys as inferior to the bad boys? when i say 'you' i mean YOU personally thanks
hey women, why do you date losers instead of nice guys like me? 1. it is more fun to comlain about them 2. guys who actually like you arent challenging or exciting 3. when you date nice guys, they turn into losers anyway, so why not save time and go for the loser in the first place? 4. you wont get as emotionally attached to a loser, so youll be in more control 5. all the other women want them, so they must be worth having 6. affection means more when it comes from a guy who doesnt normslly give it 7. they are garanteed to cheat on you, so someone else can endure his lack of lovemaking skills instead 8. there is no needto feel guilty for abusing or deciving them 9. losers will actually tell you when they dont like what youre doing instead of getting mad about it six months later 10. you are looking for someone you cant trust, and wont care about to much, who will abuse you mentally and financially, but you dont know any lawyers
Ladies do you pay bills or tips when you r dating guys? I dating a nice guys for almost 3 month we are going out very offten and he always pay for everything.... do u think that I should pay a least ones...?
Are military guys nice guys to date...? I have a date this Staurday night with a friend of my girlfriends brother. Last night though I met another guy at my other best friends house. His name is Antonio and we talked and danced for three hours. He is like Romeo and so charming. He lives next door to my best friend and this morning when I got into my car to go home I saw that he left his phone number on a card on my car windshield. He is in the Military and do you know if guys in the Military are good guys? I will be dating him also, and no I am not a slut, just a single woman trying to meet nice guys~!
Girls and nice guys, Q for all? OK, question for all: anyone dating a really great guy (nice, respectful, honest, etc.) or a nice guy dating a girl they thought they didn't have a chance with? I ask b/c there are so many Q's out here about where are all the good guys and A's alleging that men can be pigs. Just trying to set the record straight. For what it's worth, I knew my gf for over 1.5 years before I even thought about trying it. In hindsight, I think she was pretty flirty for sometime before I caught on. A little oblivious at times, yes. Pig, never. I asked in a context that was best answered (so far) by Just browsin (below). Simply put, do you agree or disagree with her? Do nice guys get the short end of the stick? Do many women settle for the bad boy, get burned, and only then wonder where the nice guys are?
10 Reasons Women Date Jerks Instead of Nice Guys. agree? 10) More fun to complain about them to your friends. 9) Guys who actually like you just aren't challenging or exciting. 8) When you do date nice guys, they turn into jerks anyway, so why not save time and go for the jerk in the first place? 7) You won't get as emotionally attached to a jerk, so you'll be more in control. 6) All the other women want them, so they must be worth having. 5) Affection means more when it comes from a guy who doesn't normally give it. 4) Guaranteed to cheat on you so someone else can endure his lack of lovemaking skills most of the time. 3) No need to feel guilty for abusing or deceiving them. 2) Jerks will actually tell you when they don't like what you're doing instead of getting mad about it six months later. 1) Looking for someone you can't trust, and won't care about too much, who will abuse you mentally and financially, but you don't know any lawyers.
How do I start dating the right guys? I NEED YOU HELP!? I seem to find that all the guys I date are really horrible people- and its not until late in the relationship that I figure that out!! IT's really bothering me that I seem to have this habit of choosing the bad boys. How do I go about finding a nice, attractive, smart and funny guy? Do they even exist??
Do you girls really like us nice guys? I am a nice guy and it seems like no girl these days like us nice guys and they would rather date a guy that is a total jerk. I also feel like us nice guys finish last or we never finish. What's your opinion about this?
Nice guys are unsuccessfull to attract women to dating. Do they also unsuccessfull in marriage life ? I know that women attracted dominant, unpredictable, uncontrolable, chalenging man. Nice guys generally do not have these qualities. So women do not feel attracted to them. I want to know that after marriage weither a nice guy can get love from her wife or not ?
Why do the nice guys date the worst women? Like a reverse "Bad Boy" syndrome!
Why are Black Women so mean to the nice Black Guys? As a young African American Man who works in a very conservative corporate environment - were there are very few African American males, I’m sometimes asked by African American people, if I experience racism in my office, (I assume they’re referring to the White people in the office). I tell them, “Actually, no, I don’t.” There may be one or two people who may have some issues, but they don’t bother me. They don’t say anything to me, and I don’t say anything to them. But over all, they, (meaning the White people in the office) are very, very nice, they are all very educated and they respect me in the same sense. But I continue to expound on the question by informing them that I do experience problems, but I get them from the Black Women in my office. A number of them are very rude, harassing and provoking towards me, although I’m always doing my work and minding my business. They make comments such as: “I don’t act black, I act like I think I’m white, etc. I’m told by some of my African American friends, men and women, that these Black Women behave like this towards me because they like me and they are trying to get my attention. Personally, I think these type of women are crazy and sick because no other women, White, Asian, etc… behaves like that towards me. I’m sometimes asked by my White and Asian women friends, “why are Black Women so mean to the nice Black Guys?; or, why do Black Women hate the nice Black Guys?” Some of the women who have asked me these questions have themselves, witness Black Women attack and harass me, as well as other African American guys like myself. White and other cultures of women in my work environment, as well as in other social environments often tell me, “You are so nice, you are so nice; you are so sweet, you are so nice”. Meanwhile, these White and Asian women watch the Black Women - although unprovoked - harass and attack me for no apparent reason, when I’m always simply just minding my business; and then they hear these very same Black Women make up crazy, sick, irrational excuses for their behavior. I explain to these White, Asian and other cultures of women that many Black Women hate the nice African American Men because they can’t pin their problems and issues on us like they are so notorious for doing, but instead have to take the challenge of responsibility for their own faults, failures and other issues. The nice guys have an education, we have good jobs, we don’t have children or owe child support, which means we have no responsibility to accompany their misery, because misery loves company, and our content and happiness makes them jealous and angry. Black Women can’t accuse us for their many problems and issues in an attempt to gain pity and sympathy from the rest of the world like they are so known to do. When nice guys are around, we make Black Women look bad and weaken their argument when ever they try to make negative and degrading statements about African American Men, and then, what makes them hate us even more is, the nice guys usually date White, Asian or other cultures of women. This leaves the question that I’ve heard other cultures ask: “Okay, we know about all the bad Black Men, but why can’t Black Women get the Good Ones?” I’m often told by some of my White and Asian Women friends, “I could never imagine you with a Black Women, you are too nice, you are not for Black Women, the other kind of Black Guys are for Black Women, you are too nice.” Black Women seem to not be aware that other cultures are very observant as to how African American people interact with each other. Often after watching Black Women harass me when I’m minding my business, my White, Asian and other cultures of women friends have said “Black Women are crazy, why do they threat the nice Black Guys bad, then get mad when they date White or Asian women?” My response is, “It-is sought of a craziness.” I though I covered all the details with my extensive post, but I guess I didn’t, but for those who may be unaware, I do have a girlfriend, and for quite while. And yes, you can guess who she is…one of those sweet, kind white girls I talked about who has always been so compatible, kind and nice. Yes DON DONS, you’re right, that-is just what I’m talking about. If I could, I would split the points and give the other half to you for speaking up and sharing your experiences, but feel secure and know that you’re not the only African American guy that goes through this. I have two or three other African American buddies that go through the very same thing. Some of them have even left their jobs, not because of racism from White people, but because of racism from Black Women harassing them. I think the solution is for these nice guys to start speaking up and not just let these type of Black Women make them miserable like they are.
what causes women to stop dating bad boys and finally date a nice guy? and more...? i've been reading questions on here about why women always date bad boys and date them but never date the nice but i have always wondered what causes women to finally stop dating bad boys and date nice guys. what i'm trying to say here is what is the final straw that breaks the camel's back? and how do women make the transition from dating bad boys to nice guys? also when do women finally decide to marry a nice guy? and why does it take so long for them to wake up and stop dating bad boys and finally meet and marry a nice guy? i know, i know alot of questions but i've been mulling this thing over for awhile. i keep wondering why my friends and other people keep making bad dating decisions and dating mediocre people.
Why do nice guys finish last? How come women dont like dating nice guys? instead, women like dating guys who are more flamboyant, rebellious, treats them like dirt, etc. what is about women that makes them like guys who treat them bad? many of my friends have lost their gfs because they were too nice. what the hell is going on? are women secretly smoking some substance? do women like being treated like dirt? i certainly wouldnt if i were a woman. is it because women find it hot and exotic to have guys treat them bad? nice guys always finish last for some reason. we are always last to get the girls because we were too nice and women dont like being treated nicely. women often overlook these nice guys as just friends and dont see that these friends will be better husbands, caretakers, and fathers. i am furious at this girl who broke up with my friend because of his nature of being too nice. he told me now he's done with being nice and going to treat women like the jerks who always get women. what is happening?
Do nice guys and nice girls finish last (in the world of dating)? Are good people always losing out in life? I'm talking particularly about dating. Are the truly good people, gentlemen and ladies usually taken advantage of? Are the bad guys and girls (or at least those with a bit of corruption in them) more popular? I'm a 'good/ nice person' as I've often been told this but I don't seem to have much luck with guys even though I'm quite pretty and have a good personality. I think I need to get a bit of 'bad stuff' in me! How do I do that?
Will i move on ? i want to meet a nice guy? is online dating ok if so any good UK sites? I really would like to met a nice genuine guy split from my ex 8 months ago i need someone to take my pain away make me happy but dont know what to do or where to go to meet someone nice .
Nice guys are unsuccessfull do attract women to dating. Do they also unsuccessfull in marriage life? I know that women attracted dominant, unpredictable, uncontrolable, chalenging man. Nice guys generally do not have these qualities. So women do not feel attracted to them. I want to know that after arranged marriage weither a nice guys can get love from her wife or not ?
nice guys? why do assholes get girls? why don't nice guys get girls? girls always say that they want a nice guy and all this other stuff.. but before u know it they are dating a asshole and u know u can be a better man for her...
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