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Recently divorced (2 years) w/2 children. How do I find the time for guilt-free dating/personal life? I haven't dated for 12 years. I now have 2 children, 10 & 12, who I spend all my free time with. I feel guilty whenever they don't have my full attention, so how do I go about dating/going out? Where should I go? Furthermore, I have such stringent requirements in my mind for whoever I might possibly have a relationship with - my children will be priority one 100% of the time. I realize they will be teens soon and I will no longer be the "perfect awesome daddy" on their pedestal. I DREAD the teenage years and feel like this will require more of my time. How do I do it? Is my reasoning a bit askew? Am I overcompensating? I'm beginning to feel the ambivalence of the sense of fulfillment when I'm with them, versus the feeling of emptiness without an intimate relationship. Is there a woman out there willing to put up with my baggage? Help me!!!
What are some free online dating sites? I would like to know some free dating sites that are 100% free and allow me to send messages and everything. And they need to be active. And one more thing, It can't be no site where people mainly are looking for sex and stuff. I wanna be in a relationship. And by the way, I'm in NJ if that helps at all
Good totaly free dating sites ???? U.K. only? Hi peeps I need help to find dating sites where you can send and recieve messages free not just a free sign up. I use person.com but most are just exebitionists and are not after a genuine relationship. I fully understand that paying to upgrade is a way to show you are genuine but i am just not i a financial position to do this but i am truely genuine and desperately need someone in my life after eight & half years of being totally alone. Many thanks for any good help offered Have a good day all
Any good ideas for cheap or free dates? My husband and I are newly married and don't really make much money. We know we need to keep the fun side of our relationship alive but have officially run out of ideas for cheap or free dates. Any help would be hot! Sorry - We live in Oklahoma City.
How do I can free from obsessional thought about women, sex, dating, swinger etc ? I am 27 years old man. I never dating with any woman as I am very shy. But I have very much sexual desire. So I was thinking about sex most of the time. Now I am heared that women do not like shy , unconfident guys. They prefer bad boys . This hurt me very much. I pass my most of the time about thinking about it . About 2 years ago , I was took psychotherapy from a lady psychotherapist to free from social anxiety. Now I am much free from social anxiety . But another problem ariases . I am thinking and fantasiging about the psychotherapist. I understood that I was fallen with her love. She is married & I know that it is unethical to do any relationship outside treatmen with her. I do not contact with her any more. But I can not forget her. Everyday every night I think about her. I also feel depresses thinking about the unsucseesfull of mine about women. These hurt me . I waste a lot of time thinking these which harm my everyday life , study etc. How can I stop this thinking ? help
Can you recommend any good free dating sites? I'm recently single and although I might not be ready to go into a full on relationship just yet, I'd still like to see what type of single women are out there. I wouldn't mind going on dates to get to know women and put myself "on the market" as it were, for when I'm ready for a relationship. By free I mean free. Not free to subscribe but you have to pay to send messages or fully access profiles.
When does dating become a relationship? How long do you generally date before you make it a relationship? How do you make it a relationship? What do you do different when you are dating someone, but not in a relationship? Feel free to state any thoughts about both dating and relationships.
Dating vs. relationship? How long do you generally date before you make it a relationship? How do you make it a relationship? What do you do different when you are dating someone, but not in a relationship? Feel free to state any thoughts about both dating and relationships.
Where to get good, drug free, girls in Vegas for long term relationship? I am not up for dating site.? Please do not send any links for dating sites. I am pretty new to Vegas. I am a busy person and do not have too much time to go to too many clubs or something. My objective is not to get laid. I am looking for a steady relationship. Please, do not answer the question by asking another question. If you are interested to know just chat with me at secondspell@yahoo.com. I am not a Church person, if you know what I am talking about. Thanks for taking the time to read/answer my question.
casual dating or relationship? i have been seeing this older guy for 3 months now. as far as i know he isnt seeing anyone else. we talk on a daily basis. see one and another 4-5 times a week. we are intimate. but there is no title. neither of us have discussed it. am i in a relationship? or are we still casually dating - still free to see other people? he brought up his exes recently - apparently they contacted him for various reasons - and i didnt react to it. but it got me thinking - what is going on.
How far is too far physically in a Christian dating relationship? My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. We are both 21 and completely in love. We are both Christians and very much in love with God. We go to church together and have fun hanging out together too. We generally love just being together. As we move farther into our relationship, we get more and more physically attracted to each other. Not only that, we are dealing with lust as well. I know that is a common thing in any relationship, but how do I deal with it? We both agree that we are going to wait until we get married to have sex, but we still want to show each other our love through physical means. When it comes to the Bible, it is unclear where right and wrong lie. How do I know if what we do is a sin? I know that sex is not an option, but what constitutes sex? Is there a definite line to not cross when you are in a relationship? I need some help with this issue. We do not want to disobey God, but we do want to be able to show each other our love physically, like kissing or whatnot. We do hold hands and kiss and we like to cuddle up together to watch a movie. Are there any suggestions? Is there a line in which we don't need to cross, in your opinion? Thanks so much for the help. If there are any questions, feel free to ask.
Are you or Have you ever been in a relationship involving Teen Dating Violence??? PLEASE READ? Are you or Have you ever been in a relationship involving Teen Dating Violence??? PLEASE READ is their any teens out there currently in a dating relationship where their BF/GF is violent, controlling, stalking, abusive, or needs to no everything??? if so i highly suggest u visit my website: WWW.911TEEN.ORG and seek help while its still safe to, tomorrow you may not be alive to ask for help!! We help teens in crisis and can help you... you tube natasha hall and watch how she was brutally killed on feb 15th 2008 at age 17... please everyone reach out now for the help you deserve... theres a better guy out there waiting just make the right choice and call us now at: 866-511-6636 OR 877-297-4977 OR 866-998-1515 OR 888-284-1992 OR 866-529-7277 to speak with us anytime for free!!! www.911teen.org
Is there a definite stopping point physically when in a Christian dating relationship? Have we gone too far? I have posted this several times, but I am looking for new answers and more opinions. I have a general idea about this, but I want to see some feedback. Thanks. I go to church and I have been to the Christian conferences. They all say, "Don't have sex." But none of them tell you what sex actually is, like what all counts. My boyfriend and I are completely in love and are planning on getting engaged and married after we graduate college. We both love God and want to follow Him in everything we do. This includes how we act around each other. We want to be able to show each other how much we love each other. We want to be able to do this physically, but we are not sure how far we can go. We kiss and hug and cuddle up to watch a movie. Right now we do not go farther than that. We have gone farther, all the way to oral, but felt that we should not be going that far, at least as often as we had, so we have backed up. We have agreed that we are going to hold off until we pray and find out exactly what God wants for us and what is okay in God's eyes. I am asking these questions because I want to follow God and obey Him, but I am not sure what he allows or whatever. Whatever we decide to do we are going to do it sparingly because we do not want our relationship to be totally about the physical side of things. We enjoy hanging out with each other and playing games. We love talking about anything and everything and talking about our families and our own wants and desires. We are very in tune to each other, but now we want to be in tune to God in everything we do even how we show each other our love (I know we kind of did that backwards). Please help with any suggestions that might lead us in the right direction. I have also added some questions about what I have been thinking about and looking for answers. How far is too far? What constitutes sex? Is there a point of no return? Is there a point when it gets too far emotionally? At what point is it is sin? Will God be disappointed if we have accidentally passed this line already? Please help!! Thanks! If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
does any one know about a 100% free dating site? I am a 36 year old man and I am looking for a white woman for marriage. I can not pay for dating sites in my country and looking for a dating site to send emails free without any limit. I am looking for busty, voluptuous, plump and BBWs and a woman who can relocate to my country. I am not interested in sluts, strippers, club dancers, sexy photos and so on. I want to find a respectable community for marriage and long term relationship. Hope to hear from any body who has some information about that.
Is there a (free) dating site to link younger people with older people? this is a little embarassing...see, when it comes to dating i've been burned by girls my own age. Also recently I had a somewhat romantic relationship with someone 20 years my senior - and we really hit it off! We had a lot in common, liked the same activities, and liked each other. Sadly that had to end because the college class we were attending ended, and we haven't seen much of each other since. But I found that I really liked the idea of, well, romance with someone my senior for various reasons...and was wondering if there was a site that specifically is for that kind of interest? Preferably it would be free (to some degree). Is there any such thing?
Can someone tell me the best free and convenient long distance dating site? i need a site which is based on long distance relationship across the globe, it should be working well and convenient, forth coming with serious and committed members not a spam. i am seriously looking for someone to date on a long distance relationship basis. but hoping to meet and see each other.
How do I can free from obsessional thought about women, sex, dating, swinger, cheating etc ? I am 27 years old man. I never dating with any woman as I was very shy & nice. About 2 years ago, I was took psychotherapy from a lady psychotherapist to be free from social anxiety. Now I am much free from social anxiety. I see & knew that women do not like shy, unconfident guys. They prefer bad boys.This hurt me very much. I have another problem that, I am thinking and fantasiging about the psychotherapist very much. I understood that I was fallen love with her. She is married & I know that it is unethical to do any relationship outside treatmen with her. I do not contact with her any more. But I can not forget her. Everyday every night I think about her. I also feel depresses thinking my unsucseesfullness with women as I am nice. I have much more sexual desire but I get nothing from women.These hurt me . I waste a lot of time thinking these which harm my everyday life , study etc. I want to stop that thinking & concentrate at my study. But I fail. How can I do this ? pls help me.
Is there a definite stopping point physically when in a Christian dating relationship? Have we gone too far? I go to church and I have been to the Christian conferences. They all say, "Don't have sex." But none of them tell you what sex actually is, like what all counts. My boyfriend and I are completely in love and are planning on getting engaged and married after we graduate college. We both love God and want to follow Him in everything we do. This includes how we act around each other. We want to be able to show each other how much we love each other. We want to be able to do this physically, but we are not sure how far we can go. We kiss and hug and cuddle up to watch a movie. Right now we do not go farther than that. We have gone farther, all the way to oral, but felt that we should not be going that far, at least as often as we had, so we have backed up. We have agreed that we are going to hold off until we pray and find out exactly what God wants for us and what is okay in God's eyes. I am asking these questions because I want to follow God and obey Him, but I am not sure what he allows or whatever. Whatever we decide to do we are going to do it sparingly because we do not want our relationship to be totally about the physical side of things. We enjoy hanging out with each other and playing games. We love talking about anything and everything and talking about our families and our own wants and desires. We are very in tune to each other, but now we want to be in tune to God in everything we do even how we show each other our love (I know we kind of did that backwards). Please help with any suggestions that might lead us in the right direction. I have also added some questions about what I have been thinking about and looking for answers. How far is too far? What constitutes sex? Is there a point of no return? Is there a point when it gets too far emotionally? At what point is it is sin? Will God be disappointed if we have accidentally passed this line already? Please help!! Thanks! If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
I am dating an Indian guy- need help for a succesful relationship? I have been dating an Indian guy (born in India) and now working in UK for 2 months and I am Caucasian. He is comming form a very traditional family, and is torn between his wish to be in harmony with is parents and his longing to be free and be with me. I need your advice about how to make our relationship last and work out the eventual problems? He is of course afraid to tell his parents about us, and anyway it is a too early starge of a relationship anyway. And also he is very honest to me, and he is not one of the sweet talking Inidan guys who promiss golden hills and then return to India and marry a girl their parents chose for him. He actually already told his parents that he does not want an arranged marriage and that he wnats to choose his partner when he wants. So I am now open to hear advices about HOW will and can our relationship WORK OUT inspite of the difficulties and potential problems wit his parents. I know it is difficult, but hay, give me a chance to try!
Can someone tell me the best free and convenient long distance dating site? i need a site which is based on long distance relationship across the globe, it should be working well and convenient, forth coming with serious and committed members not a spam. i am seriously looking for someone to date on a long distance relationship basis. but hoping to meet and see each other.
How far is too far physically in a Christian dating relationship? My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. We are both 21 and completely in love. We are both Christians and very much in love with God. We go to church together and have fun hanging out together too. We generally love just being together. As we move farther into our relationship, we get more and more physically attracted to each other. Not only that, we are dealing with lust as well. I know that is a common thing in any relationship, but how do I deal with it? I don't want us to accidentally go too far. We both agree that we are going to wait until we get married to have sex, but we still want to show each other our love through physical means. When it comes to the Bible, it is unclear where right and wrong lie. It shows no definite line as to what is okay and what is not okay. How do I know if what we do is a sin? How do I know if we are on the verge of going too far? I know that sex is not an option, but what constitutes sex? Is there a definite line to not cross when you are in a relationship? I need some help with this issue. We do not want to disobey God, but we do want to be able to show each other our love physically, like kissing or whatnot. Haw far is it okay for us to go? We do hold hands and kiss and we like to cuddle up together to watch a movie. Are there any suggestions? Is there a line in which we don't need to cross, in your opinion? Thanks so much for the help. If there are any questions, feel free to ask.
Whats a good and FREE dating site for college people? I am a 20 year old college guy at OSU and am tired of being single. I wanna meet a nice girl for a real relationship...if girls like that exist in college, I'm beginning to have my doubts. Anyway... Does anybody know a good dating site for college age people? But most importantly a really FREE site? I have tried several and it always ends up "free" means free trial. I thought TRUE might be a good site...but no, just 3 day free trial. So any suggestions? And also...anybody ever had any real success with this sorta thing? I'm just curious. Facebook and Myspace are for all people...not just singles...and certainly not just girls looking for a relationship. So its weird to randomnly email them but its not on a dating site obviously.
Shift worker stuck, relationships, online dating ? Can some tell me the top three free date sites ? Member since: June 06, 2007 Total points: 102 (Level 1) Points earned this week: --% Best answer arclight007 S Night shift, relationships, Entertainment? I am a network analyst at a Large Company, Hrs 6pm-6am, Sun or Mon – Thurs. Off Mon-Thurs Next quarter will start a new shift, Thurs-Sat or Sun off. I can have a night life then How and where does one go to meet girls with this schedule I really would like a long term relationship but is that obtainable? I play guitar pretty damn good and I am thinking of joining a band so I get what I need ,a social life The band idea is great, I can play clubs for half the year but the other half, and I have to work. I am not so sure the members of the band will be up for that. What would you do if you were in this situation? You are off Monday or Sunday - Wednesday nights in Houston TX thank you in advance Arclight
Are you or Have you ever been in a relationship involving Teen Dating Violence??? PLEASE READ? is their any teens out there currently in a dating relationship where their BF/GF is violent, controlling, stalking, abusive, or needs to no everything??? if so i highly suggest u visit my website: WWW.911TEEN.ORG and seek help while its still safe to, tomorrow you may not be alive to ask for help!! We help teens in crisis and can help you... you tube natasha hall and watch how she was brutally killed on feb 15th 2008 at age 17... please everyone reach out now for the help you deserve... theres a better guy out there waiting just make the right choice and call us now at: 866-511-6636 OR 877-297-4977 OR 866-998-1515 OR 888-284-1992 OR 866-529-7277 to speak with us anytime for free!!! www.911teen.org
Structure versus Freedom in a dating relationship? How is a healthy relationship better based off of? I have my own views, but would like the input of others. Is it better to have rigidly enforced rules while dating someone, or a more spontaneous, free will, whatever may happen will happen approach? See my ex wants to get back together and in the process she wants to make tons of rules and guidelines that I am supposed to have to follow. Considering I don't want to date her, I want a more free approach. I'm trying to tell her that this is the wrong way about going about dating someone.
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Do you want monogamous, committed relationship or do you want to be free to date whomever you desire? treycapnerhurst, By committed, I meant a promise to be forever faithful to [no affairs whether emotional or physical], to love and cherish and stay [(physically, emotionally, help needed) a promise not to forsake nor abandon]. I guess we hold different notion notions of commitment. To cheat on, lie, abandon or give your physical body or affections to someone other than the one you promised yourself to, would not be commitment. I guess we hold different notions of commitment. Your commitment seems to be limited to just not leaving physically. Racer X, same reponse I've given to you to treycapnerhurst
are there any free dating sites? it seems that every dating site wants you to pay them $2 trillion a month for nothing more than being afforded the chance to IM someone that you might find attractive. i've never been in a relationship before and i need to find a way to meet people. i would appreciate it very much if someone could just point me in the right direction. - thanks
Need ideas how to find girlfriend relationship? Hi I am male age 35 living in London. I have been single for long time. I have tried dating direct and other dating website but without joy and have waste so much money. Can someone give ideas/proven method where to find girlfriend/ relationship. If there is any dating site free to contact please let me know. Thanks in advance
What is the best free dating site to find a one night hookup? Im pretty much not into a relationship right now, but a guy does get lonely, & im sure theres some lonely females out there, so what im wondering is what is the best free site for casual hookups in Toronto(specifically Oshawa area) Ive tried Plentyoffish but have not really gotten responses so i just want to know what are the best other options out there (& just so people know im an average looking 21 yr old im not some creeper or anything lol) Obviously id use protection people! Mature answers only please!
What are some indications that you might marry a person you have a personal relationship with? In considering the probability or chances that you are going to marry a particular person you have a personal relationship with, what are some indications that will help you make a proper assessment of your chances? Please consider cases where the chance is at least fifty percent: examples might be: - you are currently (seriously) dating, OR have (seriously) dated in the past but had a clean break up and are still good friends... - you have discussed marriage, and both indicated you have desired it, at least at one point - the parents of the person treat you as an important person and like you perhaps: - you felt something special immediately the first time you met Please consider as wide a range of indications as possible, (feel free to draw from psychology, sociology, philosophy, and other fields.) an example from psychology may be: - the person depends on your loyalty partially for his happiness, that you are an "important person" in his/her life, and he/she has indicated this - that you have been intimate, and have good sexual chemistry - that you have a deep emotional connection/share similar values - the chances are higher if you are both mature, as this decreases the chances of "growing apart" - that you know some secrets/things about the person no one else knows etc etc
Relationship help/advice please...? My bf and I have been together for almost 4 months...and everything between us is fine but we both had longer relationships before dating eachother. So we are having a little trouble getting used to eachothers expectations because we are so used to what we had before. I need alot of attention or I tend to get bored and when I'm with someone I prefer to spend my time with them when I have available free time when im not at work or school, etc. He doesnt seem to be as needy so I'm having trouble not being offended when he wants to leave my house to go to sleep or just stay home and relax. Any ways to help get over it and not care so much? On top of that his mother is always in our business...any suggestions...b/c she has a big mouth which means everyone is in our business n that makes it hard for a new relationship to work...we have a great connection i want to make it work better. suggestions please! ty :]
How to break free from an unfufilling friendship/relationship? I believe that I need to break free from a guy that Ive been dating for about four months. We arent in a commited relationship but he acts as though we are( going thru my phone, asking me 20 questions about my whereabouts and who else am I seeing. But when i need someone to talk to after having a bad day, he isnt there. I wnt to leave him alone. But I dont want to hurt him... I've already told him how I feel about the whole situation....but he keeps "trying" and it really seems as though he's trying to please me.
sex-free relationship? Is it too wrong to deny sex in a relationship? The last one I was in we only had sex twice and I cut it off cuz I felt like we were in the wrong and he did some wierd shit like in the middle of sex tried to close legs and keep fucking like it pleased me when I push him off. I just don't want a sexually relationship cuz most of the guys I meet wants me to give it up and depend on them only to prove that I can not trust/depend on them. I'm only 22 and I don't believe sleeping with every guy I date. This guy was just a screw up, but is it okay to ask this from future bfs? Sorry I am online using my t-mobile sidekick 3 and sometimes my questions end showing up twice
Two part Question 1) other then plentyoffish.com is there a free dating web site? and 2)? well let me finish one... Im not looking for a seven day trial crapper or a free look but an actual free web site like plentyoffish.com. The other question For the ladies is that when i do find this site this is what i want to put down tell me if you would bite to it. Young man seeking older mature lady. Looking for that hard working have kids type that just needs to be spoiled. The kind thats too busy for a relationship and wants to be romanced and pleased after all we are human you could do worse go ahead go to that bar where there will probably be a guy about 10 years older who is drunk slobbering all over and if and when you chose to take him home he just passes out. Isnt that the dream? Bla im looking to excite your needs and wants can be descrete or it can be conversational cuddling up to you but you must be within the ages of 26-44
Divorced and dating again - Relationship questions? I'm divorced for 3 years now. I met a woman who is going through a divorce now herself and we began dating. She's a single mom full time with the father having visitation every other weekend. I am a single father with custody every single weekend. Our kid - free time is next to none, which is fine, because I love kids too. Now for the questions... She's working full time now, which is new for her since being a mother. She's struggling financially, but she's making it. She's going through her divorce, and she's working on finishing her masters degree. Add all this to the fact that she's now dating me, and she's really feeling stressed, and worried that she can't keep everything together. I've offered her moral support, and even given her space. Is this the right thing to do, or is there something different I should be doing? Anyone with similar experiences? We haven't been dating long... within two months. The euphoria of a new relationship is wonderful, yet we've not crossed the line into saying "I love you" yet, and we started things slowly between us. We are dating each other exclusively right now.
Can you please help me with a dating question I have? I have been dating this mormon guy for about four months now and I am of a different religion. Things seem to be going pretty well between us but he keeps on wanting me to meet up with the missionairies and wants me to come to all his church activities, I don't know if I should continue this relationship, I am not sure if he is trying to convert or really likes me even if I am a different faith,I have talked to him before about this issue and he says anyone has his free will to choose who they want to date but the church discourages it. Should I stay in the relationship or just remain friends? Thank you!
urgent please help with ADVICE girls.....on RELATIONSHIP? Here goes: GF broke up w/ me 3.5 wks ago after being together 10 mos. during the last 2-3 mos. I finished a project that I worked with since we began dating and so I had alot of free time on my hands and always was around and wanted to always see her, etc. she is a full time college student and her friends dont live her so they came home for holiday break and i would get upset that she wanted to see them without me and i always wanted to be around her(I know this is really not right). anyways our relationship was amazing and we had a connection that neither of us had ever before and she spoke of the future together, where we would live, kids, dogs, etc. she said when she broke up w/ me she lost attraction for me. I know she has spoke to and hung out w/ her ex recently. I have gotten the typical advice (no contact, move on, etc.) I dont want to though since we have had a connection like no other and I hurt the relationship with my recent neediness..if there is any advice please help me. PS WE HUNG OUT YESTERDAY AND IT WENT WELL, I WASNT PUSHY OR ANYTHING..NOT SURE WHAT TO DO FROM HERE
As a teenager, would you say your dating and relationships were positive experiences? I mean, recall back to being a teenager. Overall, would you say it was a good thing dating as much/as little as you did? Do you regret dating so much, or regret not getting into as many relationships as you did? If you're currently a teenager and dating, are you happy with your current status (Dating/single?) =D Feel free to just say what you feel, I'm interested to know what you guys think.
looking for a long term relationship...? i just finished my masters course and am currently doing some volunteer work. i've been single the whole of... well forever, cuz i was focusing on my academics. now i'm looking for a serious realtionship. where can i meet girls who want the same kindo f relationship. i treid a couple of free dating sites and made a few freinds in uni and on trips abroad but i just can't seem to get past the friend level. any advice would be appreciated.
What will a woman do if she sees an attractive man at a public place? Let say a woman is looking for dating, and she sees a man at a public place (eg. Mall, Gym, Library, Beach etc…) that she is interested then what is she going to do? Nowadays, what are the first three choices for women to look for a long-term relationship? (eg. Pay or free internet dating site)
I need a FREE website for a new business service. Any advice? I just spent 4 hours searching for a FREE wed site provider. Geocities drove me nuts, (although it seemed like the best) 50megs is confusing, Angelfire lost me, webNG.com is so confusing I just deleted it. Myspace seemed to be on a general basis: dating/relationship/chat/journal/whatever level....so where do I go? I am completely lost when it comes to comprehending how to start a website! I need a website for "dummies" I guess! Does anyone know of a site that offers free web sites, easy to use, I don't understand HTML copy paste or whatever! Not a "blog" (unless you think that will work) but a website, where I can do whatever I want. Offer my business services (notary public, mailed legal forms, advice, ) With background templetes, sound, guestbook, counter and more? Anyone have a great website that was easily created? Share your site and knowledge for 10 points! How can someone give a thumbs down to me asking this question? If you don't have an answer than just go to something you know..........
What is your opinion on dating? I was always under the impression that if you were dating someone, it wasn't a relationship and you were free to date other people, as long as you were honest about it (obviously not giving details as to who where and what, but just honest about the status). Now, it seems that dating has turned into this thing where people assume, from the first date, that they and their date are committed to each other, not allowed to see other people. I am now married, and it wasn't too long ago that I was dating, been with my husband for a total of about 3 1/2 years. Before I met him, I dated. I would go out on different dates with different men (that doesn't mean I was sleeping with them). I thought that this was how we found out what we were looking for. How and when did the status of dating turn into immediate relationship? Martin, that's not dating. That's having a boyfriend and bringing him around your friends. I'm talking about dating, no committmenet, getting to know each other and then deciding if you want to go further in the relationship. Respect is being honest with those that you are dating. And respecting that the person you are dating can and may date other people other then you,
Should a relationship be "exclusive" from the beginning? If you want to date someone, should you be able to date others as well? I think that you should be free to date others until the relationship gets serious enough to consider marriage. As long as all people involved are aware of the situation, and agree to it. How many people would go for that?
6mth we not dating? what is our relationship? I blur!? we 6mth not dating and not even body contact, he never call me, only I miss him so I call him, sumtime he answer the call and tok nicely sumtime he not answerl. I ask him "you still wan to continue?" He said" I don't Know?" I ask him"shall we hv a tok? or dating?" He said " I not free or I don't know? or Don't ask me this (and put down the phone or walk away)" I ask 4 break off " He will shout to me and said never mind I go through alot without me is fine" then I call again said I still miss him, then he tok nicely again. I donno what he wan? he still LV me or not? if he lv me why he never miss me? only I miss him?
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